No offense but maybe it is the WAY you speak. My wife does not talk very much but when she is telling a story it goes on WAY too long! I am not a professional speaker but I have always heard: less is more.
The more effective speakers can convey a point, even with elaborate details, with as little verbiage as possible.
It has also been said that we have two ears and one mouth for a reason. That is to listen twice as much as we speak! Good luck in your goals and I hope I helped instead of insulted.
I'm not offended, and i quite appreciate your opinion @superdavey :) I think body language is also very important and the ability to speak less and resume what is said also. You helped me a lot and i will try to change some things and perfect my ability to speak :)