Find and join a Jiu jitsu gym, will get you in great shape & teach the most effective self defense against A bully in my opinion. If there are multiple bullies run!
Try a jiu jitsu gym or whatever other self defense class you can find near you! It won’t gaurantee you will win the fight but will help you think strategically about each situation & how to handle it. You also might meet some friends who don’t mind sticking up for you if need be 😉
Now that's pretty fresh @ceattlestretch. I think I need friends that can fight. I can only imagine what it must be like dating a chic like janicehung. A dream.. :0
I got bullied quite a bit till I was 15 & got bigger than all my bullies. 20 years later, no bullies, but I need some form of training to keep me balanced and calm. Would love to help if I could 🤝
My problem is that I'm a cur. I get paralyses by the fear of beat someone up even if they deserved it. I wish I could disregard my fear of hurting others..
Find and join a Jiu jitsu gym, will get you in great shape & teach the most effective self defense against A bully in my opinion. If there are multiple bullies run!
Thanks for this @ceattlestretch, but I need something that will give me the courage not to run..
Try a jiu jitsu gym or whatever other self defense class you can find near you! It won’t gaurantee you will win the fight but will help you think strategically about each situation & how to handle it. You also might meet some friends who don’t mind sticking up for you if need be 😉
Now that's pretty fresh @ceattlestretch. I think I need friends that can fight. I can only imagine what it must be like dating a chic like janicehung. A dream.. :0
I got bullied quite a bit till I was 15 & got bigger than all my bullies. 20 years later, no bullies, but I need some form of training to keep me balanced and calm. Would love to help if I could 🤝
My problem is that I'm a cur. I get paralyses by the fear of beat someone up even if they deserved it. I wish I could disregard my fear of hurting others..
Just think of it as educating them 😁
Definitely go train, the beauty of jiu jitsu is you can learn to restrain someone without hurting them, unless they insist 😃