This is one of the best posts i have read for a long time. So much truth and life insights that penetrate the veil of bullshit we have all been brainwashed into believe. Some, as yourself, eventually manage to wake up from the false spell and take control of their own destiny. Many though are no doubt stuck in the daily grind looking for that false promise of financial freedom.
I think this post is a valuable piece of wisdom all could benefit from - step one on the path to freedom is to first define what freedom means to you. I just love that. It seems so obvious and yet most of dont ever do exactly that. Until we know what freedom to us really means then we are simply chasing a ghost. I am so happy for you that you broke free from the chains of the false dream and that is was your dear husband who was part of that experience.
It was a work colleague who broke that spell for me. One day, we were sat in the company lunch canteen and as part of a wider conversation he casually said: "If you dont have a dream you will follow someone else"
It might not sound so special but that sentence penetrated my heart like a sledge hammer. From that moment on I began planning to change my circumstances that were very similar to your own previous situation.
Excellent post
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Thank you, I am glad you enjoyed the read. I really believe in defining our problems before we look for solutions. I think that's part of why so many people find themselves stuck wanting, because the most common 'solutions' revolve around employment. But when continuous job changes fail to improve quality of life we are forced to dig deeper, which can be uncomfortable territory for some people; I know it can be for me. But our entire system is set up for the employer/employee relationship, don't you think? From a young age we are taught to move in herds and follow the direction of a single authority (teacher) and to regeritate others thoughts and perspectives. We are taught to serve others by continuously handing in assignments instead of how to serve ourselves. It's no wonder so many people stay where they are, they need to shift their entire paradigm to discover real solutions. Which, I think, is why that statement opened your eyes. That same statement was presented to me as well and I too found enlightenment from it.
I am so grateful to have Matthew in my life. His patience and encouragement are unwaivering! He really forces me to consistently question and analyze the world around me and I am in a constant state of growth because of it.
I am also really enjoying the steemit community because so many members are 'awake' and willing to rally together as a community for a better future. Steemians force me to continue asking hard questions and explore alternative solutions. I find the interactions here more meaningful and thought provoking than other platforms I use. Thanks for your contribution! -Aimee
I think your man is a good guy too. Anyone who loves cats is usually a good guy lol - In saying that, when I read your words and insights can also see that you must be treasure for him too. So happy you found each other. What is life if we can not share it with someone?
Best wishes to you Aimee - have you considered getting your own account?
Ha ha! Yes, he does have quite the love for cats doesn't he? Thank you so much for your kind words.
I have thought about getting my own account but my hands are pretty full with our twins right now. I don't think I could maintain my own account right now which is why I am helping Matthew build his account instead. One day though, I would like to create one. As usual, Matthew encouraged me to have one for a while, I resisted (out of stubbornness?), but after taking his account for a stroll have come to enjoy the community. Shame on me, I should have more faith in his judgement by now! Ha!
-Aimee
Well it seems like you are a good team to me, best of lick whatever you decided and I will continue to look out for new posts on this account. Laters.... : )