There Are Friends Who Become Family
For the most part, the majority of us have friends, some closer than others. In my experience, the friends that will stick with you for a while are the real ones. If you have been friends with someone very close for over 7 years, you may want to call that person your family because you won't find that type of friendship around the corner anywhere.
Not everyone gets to build friendships for a long period of time. A friend that becomes family is usually there for you in the good times and bad times as well. A real friend gives you advices and also expects to get advices from you when you have something meaningful to share.
Friends are the family we choose in this life and they are priceless once you find some who can become your family. There are going to be ups and downs a lot of times, but if they're true friends, they will stick around. This message goes for you as well with the way you behave as a friend. Whatever you expect from anyone, make sure you are also willing to be the friend you wish to have in your life.
There are NOT going to be that many of those friends because they're not easy to find. If you experience a friendship break up at some point and there is not turning back, just go with the flow because some people will only be there temporary, and that is fine. You are your own being and can move forward with the learning you got from the experience.
Be the friend you want to have and you will obtain much love from the real friends.
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Friendship is an asset one should preserve it. Friends make our lives Heavenly and liveable you may have vast amount of wealth but if don't have true friend all become worthless and priceless.So Friend love your friends as your family so that your friends become your happy family. Have a great day my dear friend.
Very very true my friend. You may have all the money in the world, but if your friendships are a failure, you do not enjoy anything 100%. thank you very much
nice to see you dear..@javybar.
Todays topic so special for me Dear.
Every people need one friend for share her feeling, pain,happiness.
In.my life practically i dont have so much.friend. because my mom dad not.like.
But i have some. friends steemit and facebook.they are so specail for me.Two friens are so special for me.one @neeqi who always support me.here.She take care me.lot.then other one from facebook he is like my brother now. I know they live from me so far but i love them so much from my heart. i feel sometimes so lucky because God give me them..as my friend.I dont know.how much they love me..But i respect my friends so much..Every people need to do friendship seeing heart not other things. Beacuse in our life friendship so important matter.Because a friends can save his one friends life and also can ruin his life...Everything up to real friend....So we need choose friend to see his heart,mentality, pureness also his good behaviour . So we need take care so much..about this matter..But friend is so important in our life.We need to help each other, we need to live for each other and we need to live along in this world thats we need to take care..about this matter..Its a special topic for everyone.
In our life friendship so.important..dear from.your por we learn many good things..
Thank you @javybar for sharing this post...
Biggest love for. You @javybar
God bless you...
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Excellent contribution my friend. Real Friends are not that easy to find, but they do show up along the way at the right time and at the right moment. Sooner or later more friendships will come to your life, i feel it. Thank you very much for coming. Wishing the best :)
welcome..dear..
@javybar...
Thanks my friend for your high-end topics
Friendship, my friend, is a treasure that can not be destroyed. The presence of the righteous friend in our lives, which preserves our secret and is the safest of all things.
really fantastie quote my deae friend..just excellent.. They re friends you meet n sometimes you don't even remember they are your friends you think they are family, Good friends are more precious than Gold,they re always they in time of adversity,life isn't complete without such friends..example:you are my best friend in my whole life.because always help my work and supporting my wirk.but yesterday you not upvote my link.pls upvote my link.a good friend may a friend very soon future success doing.i hope that,you very quickly future success being helped doing of me.i always respect it.. its my right.because you are my friend..take care yourself and best of luck of your great work.very well done..@javybar
if you have a very strong friendship, it is difficult to destroy. We just wish they could last forever :)
Brilliant dear friend this is a totally true I love my Friends like family
I spent lots of a time with my friends
I have many friends but 3 friends are my best friend I think this is the best relationship in childhood our parents is our friends thanks for your greatest words
Well said @javybar in my 2 cent opinion life give you an opportunity to meet a lot of people and you are really lucky to find sincere people. It is the term almost vanished from the society. So if you find any sincere person just give him respect what he deserve. Good friend is just like a family who always help you in your difficult time and opportunist always ditch you in your bad time. Behave your friend in a same way that you expect from your friend.friend is your asset so keep your asset safely. Keep sharing @javybar
Absolutely right, some friendz are like a family, who always live with you, in every situation good time and bad time.
I have some experience of break down friendship. I was really disappointed three years ago. That friend want only me for his requirements. I understood him after 2.5 years. It was my badness. Immediately I leave from him. Then he scolded me lot. Bu I be patience. Now I have only few friends in my life. Those friends seriously helpful friends me. No I'm pretty lucky man.
ups and downs always happens. Sounds you are in a better place. It was probably the best for you. Keep moving forward :)
@javybar, Absolutely brilliant quote indeed awesome conversation. In my life time lot of friends met. Someone was best friends also someone was timely friend. Very easy to establish friendship. But hard to keep long term friendship. I had big best friend 17 years ago. He gave lot of advice to succeed my life. He elder than 6 years to me. But unfortunately he died from Tsunami disaster. But currently have few best friends to me. They're giving massive support for go further. As my Buddhism religion nicely mentions what's advantages and needful establishing good friendship. Everyone will make friendship and sure can go higher.
I'm sorry to hear what happened to your best friend. Must be very hard, but lots of support comes out of that from the other real friend and I think the outcome has been taken in a positive way for the better, which is what your best friend always wanted for you. Keep it up and spread the love :)
It is excellent quote I found. This title most impressive. Everyone try to keep long term friendship. Short term friendships cannot accepted everyone. Friends want our whole life time. But you need to know who's the best friend. If not you have long disappointment.
Buenos dias @javibar para mi ,la palara amigo significa compartir y ayudar, un amigo te dice lo bueno y lo que debes mejorar, a ti solo , algunas personas quieren llamar la atencion , reprendiendote en voz alta , y eso un buen amigo no lo hace , aqui es donde debes mirar si es un amigo o solo un conocido.
Feliz dia :)
Si la verdad hay que ser bastante selectivo ya que uno comparte muchas cosas de la vida de uno a los amigos y pues hay que tener confianza con esa persona, Compartir y ayudar es parte de la mistad, muy deacuerdo. Muchas gracias y que pase un buen dia :)
Without friend our life is boring and funless...@javybar.
I believe that life is an awful, ugly place to not have a
best friend...
A friend is a person who is always there when we fall down sad. It is not a friend if there is only when we are happy and have a position.
oooo... so sweet. How friends can add so much value to someones life... really enjoyed reading your story.
They do add for the most part lots of value. Thanks for the reading. I appreciate it :)
Friendship is the most beautiful relation and they are absolutely right Friends are the family and this is the cutest relation true friends is like family in my life
I think our life partner is true and good friend.
Thanks for this inspirational post dear I am really glad
thank you! You are very welcome my friend :)
Golden words, my friend and how you feel about and talk about friendship makes me very happy, because to have a friend like you in your life is a great reward! Of course, we all have friends in our life and I agree with you that the friend who is with you for many years and at any time when you feel good or bad, this friend has the right to become a part of our family and I will say frankly, it's great! Thank you @javybar
You are very welcome my friend :)
Great words and nice conversation my friend @javybar. In our childhood our world is friends after parent's love. But time goes, we all spend with married life and then family life probably leave from our best friendship. But it's not accepted me. Please keep friendship forever. Friends being with us every happy and sadness moments.
It matters not that friends to be important in life. What is important that whether you maintain friendship honestly or not. Because, maintaining friendship needs a honest approach.
It remains a deep desire that friend needs to respond to you as the way you desire from him. If it happens ,you consider friendship is important to you. If reverse takes place, a doubt rises in your mind whether friendship is important in life.
This is a great point. Friendships are a bit similar like relationships, If you don't water the plant, it will die :)
just high thought qualuty knowledge skills my dear friend... @javybar Yeah you are right, friends are those who are there with you in your happiness, friend are those who are with you in you hard time,in your sadness,And those who are with you in this journey are the real.friend, they become your family.thabks to sharing for your amazing thought post..
True friendship is a strong, sometimes indestructible feeling that has been tested and time-tested. Real friendship, like true love, is a valuable gift in life, which must be treasured, if it is. Because losing a friend is easier than an easy one, but it is sometimes very difficult to find one. And the more mature we become, the more difficult it is to meet real friends, who will become family members for you.
lovely post dear i love my family and love my friends. thank you for shering family post.dear i all time love like and support your post so
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Really there exists many of this kind of people who have a great behavior and they are courteous that you always want to be with them. I have many friends who are more than like brothers to me. I treat them as my family and they are very dear to me.
@javybar I have more friends in my life rather than family members who have nothing to do with me. Don't need them because I don't want their drama or mean spirit in my life. In every sense of the word ...It doesn't have to be thru blood it's just in love for one another. Just meeting for lunch or talking on the phone lifts me up for weeks. They are only a few, but so very dear to me.
It's kinda sand when family become strangers,and friends become family. But at the same time,a wonderful feeling to know they'll stick by you,when bood family turns their back..
Then there are people who pretends to be your friend.... We should cherish the real ones we've got..
We love those kind of friends! We have several in our family!
Friends, It's a golden word when I lonely my friends support me. A Real friend always helps us in danger. Without friends a man nothing. A man cannot live alone.
My dear friend, @javybar
today you represent a reality of the life. I agree with you that If you have been friends with someone very close for over 7 years, you may want to call that person your family because you won't find that type of friendship around the corner anywhere. I also believe that. I have those type friend who always with me. As my happiness and sorrows time.
Glad you relate with my thought, i have found that thought to be very true over the years. Thank you for expressing your experience.
yeah you are right,my dear friend @javybar,Absolutely brilliant quote indeed awesome conversation. I have some experience of break down friendship. Those are our real strength and we don't want to lose them. We treat them as our family.thanks for share,
Yes they can become family, very priceless. Thank you :)
I am very happy with the title of your discussion today, I believe, sometimes friends are closer than our own siblings, and I have some friends that exceed my own brother
That is totally true. With friends, you can be a bit more open because you have private things you want to have family away from it. Friends are the best to be that second family you can count on. Thank you :)
Interesting message. You are right, there is such friendship, where people become like relatives. But not everyone can meet such friendship. Friendship is born on mutual sympathy, common interests, pleasant and comfortable joint pastime. Friendly feelings arise spontaneously and develop into deep sincere relations only when certain rules are observed, the most important of which are: mutual respect, mutual support, mutual understanding, worthy deeds, understanding and, perhaps, the most important, trust.
The most important aspect of friendship is, there is no judgment, here only exists the appreciation, brotherhood love and healthy criticism, and the fun times of friendship is precious. Sometimes we feel the depressive phases and that time only our true friends can change our mood with silly jokes. Thanks for sharing this friendship post with us and wishing you an great day. Stay blessed. 🙂
Thank you very much :)
In this life we all have friends, in my opinion a friend who we can consider as a brother is a friend who is always there when we are hard or happy. Because I often see in the present environment, only when we have a lot of money and many people who want to be friends with us, when we are hard all friends will go, that is where we can distinguish who a sincere friend and that we can consider family. That's the life of very few sincere people, if we do not have a lot of money. Thanks for sharing, and wish you a wonderful day... :)
That is soooo true my friend. That's how you usually can find out who's real or not. No need for a lot of money to have real friends. Thank you for your contribution :)
A close friend can be like a family of his own. Although there is no blood relation, but the bonds and the linkage of the heart that is created can make us think of them as their own family. True friends who always support for our happiness and always present help us when we get into trouble, they are like the best family God has given us.
Totally agree with you here :)
I have experienced as you say ..very true and heart touching <3 <3
great thoughts @javybar thanks for sharing..
Awesome words and pleasant discussion my companion @javybar. In our youth our reality is companions after parent's affection. In any case, time goes, we as a whole go through with wedded life and afterward family life likely leave from our best companionship. In any case, it's not acknowledged me. If it's not too much trouble keep fellowship until the end of time.
you are correct, companions are the individuals who are there with you in your bliss, companion are the individuals who are with you in you hard time,in your pity.
Yes exactly my friend, life without friends is colorless. Friends are backbone of our life, without them it is like a tea without a sugar. I'm blessed with such friends. But there are only few with whom you can talk and share everything of your life thats what makes them a family.
Friends are not like family. When people say this, they are defining family incorrectly. Of course you can be closer to friends than members of your family. That's not the point. You choose your friends. Love them or hate them, you're stuck with family. You're related. It's apples and oranges.
very true!
You are completely right. I have never contemplated it, however it's actual, genuine companions move toward becoming individuals from our families. Good fortunes to you and Love.
Good fortunes to you and Love as well
I am teaching my girls that blood family isn't always important. The most important thing is when you are feeling crappy. You are not at your best and you don't find a way out of a terrible situation and you don't even love yourself at that moment......the people who stick around, helps you, stimulate you, motivate you no matter what....these are your true family. And be so thankful that they are in your life.
Very true! Feeling thankful is a way to boost the love in the friendship. Thank you very much for your contribution :)
What I do know is this: I love my tiny extended family more than I can ever ably express, but I also love my friends, especially those with whom I can feel ompletely csafe in terms of trust. A good friend died three years ago of ovarian cancer and I still think that the phone will ring and she will be on the line.
When I have self-pity moments I recall her resilience and sometimes taciturn manner, and hear her saying "Oh for heaven sake, get over yourself." Wherever you are, my friend, thanks for continuing to boot me along the right path.
Good friends are more irreplacable than they may even realize.
I really relate with what your experience has been. When that special friend is not there anymore, there is some emptiness that we got to overcome and yes, Good friends are more irreplaceable than we may even realize. Keep it up and move forward :)
"Family isn't always blood. It's the people in life who want you in theirs; the ones who accept you for who you are. The ones who would do anything to see you smile and who love you no matter what."
Well said, my friend @javybar, because a true friend, this is the best thing that can be in our lives! You are right, the friend who walked with you for a long time and shared with you everything that was on your way deserves to become a part of your family and only he will always be your hope and support, in later life. I am very glad that there are such friends in our life!
I agree with you i also love my friends they are my family : )
"There are friends, there is family, and then there are friends that become family."
Family isn't always blood. It's the people in life who want you in theirs; the ones who accept you for who you are. The ones who would do anything to see you smile and who love you no matter what.
That's correct. Friends are family we choose, it's not given to us by birth. The description of a friend you show is someone very pure in their heart. Very touching. Thank you. Started following you :)
You are always welcome : )
Friends is one of the most beautiful gift of God. Without friends our life may be a hell. A true friend is a great asset in our life as we choose him like a family member. He always try to help us even in a danger time. Sir @javybar I appreciate your beautiful thoughts about frienship. Thanks for always talking about our life's important topics.
Totally agree with you my friend, I appreciate it :)
Great words regarding friendship and yes an true friend will be there for you in tough and good times too and some stay for life long and some will leave you in half way, but as you said we have to move forward in flow and have to learn and take the experiences from this phase. The most important aspect of friendship is, there is no judgment, here only exists the appreciation, brotherhood love and healthy criticism, and the fun times of friendship is precious. Sometimes we feel the depressive phases and that time only our true friends can change our mood with silly jokes. Thanks for sharing this friendship post with us and wishing you an great day. Stay blessed. 🙂
You are very right my friend. You mentioned healthy criticism and I caught my attention because true friend tell you the things you may have to improve in a good way, in a lovable way and that is priceless. Have a greata day :)
Thank you so much. 🙂
Friends are one of the biggest part of our life..!
I personally think, my friends are influencing me to be a better person everyday..!
And I'm really lucky to have real good friends since childhood...
The long 8/10 years of friendship has already made us feel like a family... I wrote about them in steemit blog posts too..!!!
I guess u also have someone who is more than a friend, more like a family member to u..!
Long live all of our friendships..!!! 🙌
~ Tennis Girl 🎾🎾
It sounds you have amazing friends and I'm really glad for you. They become your family as well as you become theirs. Keep it up. I appreciate your contribution :)
thx, man..! :)
They re friends you meet n sometimes you don't even remember they are your friends you think they are family, Good friends are more precious than Gold,they re always they in time of adversity,life isn't complete without such friends.. thanks for sharing your thoughts
You're very right. I have friend I treat like family. It doesn't feel I'm talking with a friend, it feels they're just other family members. Thank you for your lovely comment :)
Very positive post @javybar. However, one must remember that:
The next question would be, how to find who is your true friend. Well, it's not that difficult:
One more thing that I think worth-sharing about friendship is:
Steem On!
Good to have you back my friend. These quotes are powerful. Basically they are the answer of a lot of questions in doubt. I appreciate it a lot :)
Thank You. I hope, this time I stay longer and don't get knocked down by the strong forces of failure. :D
Completely splendid statement in fact amazing discussion. In my life time parcel of companions met. Somebody was closest companions additionally somebody was opportune companion. Easy to set up kinship. In any case, hard to keep long haul companionship. I had huge closest companion 17 years prior. He gave parcel of exhortation to succeed my life. He senior than 6 years to me. In any case, shockingly he kicked the bucket from Tsunami debacle. Be that as it may, at present have few closest companions to me. They're giving enormous help for go further. As my Buddhism religion pleasantly specifies what's points of interest and needful setting up great fellowship. Everybody will ensure can go higher.all the best
@javybar
I have experienced as you say @javybar, we have been friends from small, already 20 years, they really have become part of my family, so also they consider me, a great friendship
That's what happens when you have years of friendship. They are family for you. Thank you for your contribution :)