Human relationships are so complicated that sometimes I wonder why I (and every other person) are crazy enough to get involved in the first place.
I mean, its just bonkers, the fact that I have my needs, faults, attractions, principles, ideologies and this person I meet has these things, except that his/hers differs in one or two places. Considering the fact that these things are important to each of us, we should be at each other's throat all the time because of the conflict of interest. When I suffer injury from the next person, I should just turn around and leave, get as far away as possible, right?
... Because we feel that through relationships we can grow the fastest.