Following up on my post about the state of the world and the coming changes it is my wish to shed some light on the profound changes that are taking place regarding the issue of relationships, and romantic relationships in particular. To be honest, though, I am not really describing the future because the changes have already been taking place for two decades now. Nevertheless, it is true that more and more humans will have to adopt the following described style of life.
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Finding someone
Nowadays: people search. They use online dating website, go to bars/clubs, take classes and workshops and generally, if they are single their daily attention is almost always focused on finding a spouse. If they meet a man/woman they ask themselves: "is s/he my one?", "will I have a relationship with this person?", "what kind of a relationship we will have? for how long?" Nowadays, the mind of the average single man or woman is preoccupied with the search for someone to be with.
In the future: people will not search. The right person will be naturally and effortlessly attracted to them. The less they invest mentaleffort in the process the easier and faster the right person will come. Instead of doubting and worrying they will simply trust that their matching person will be there, at the right time. The level of their trust will be so high that they will not care to be alone for as much as needed because they will know that when they are ready they will be in a relationship.
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How many relationships
Nowadays: the average man and woman have several relationships before they "settle down" and commit to one person. Various relationships are necessary because they allow the person to learn about their personality and make the necessary adjustments until they make themselves ready for their "one".
In the future: people will not need to go through several relationships for the sake of learning. They will be aware and responsible to be able to go through the required processes alone. It will not be rare that people will get together from an early age, feeling and knowing and remembering their pre-life decision to be together in this physical world. While nowadays it may take a lifetime until one is ready to be with his soul-mate, in the future soul mates will be together from an early age, even as early as childhood.
The Essence
Nowadays:
The main reason why people get themselves together in a relationship is to learn and grow. Either they do it consciously or without much awareness, they use their spouses as a mirror for hidden parts within them, neglected aspects, that now need to surface, be dealt with, accepted and released.
Another reason for hooking up with people is the pleasure principle. People just want to have fun and to satisfy (for instance) their sexual drive.
A third most common reason is the fear of being alone. People are afraid of the quiet times that they have with themselves and so they want to be with someone. They are also afraid of the future ("who will take care of me once I get older?") and so they are forced by society to find someone to be with.
And lastly, the feeding issue. People require a relationship to fill themselves, to give them what they cannot get – do not know how to get – from themselves, from the inner and deep part of their identity. It's much easier to find a temporary and available relief from the outside than doing the inner journey within.
In the future: none of all these will exist simply because the consciousness will not allow it. People will choose to be with other people for the sake of experiencing life in a way that they cannot do alone. They will join their forces to accomplish things, for the sake of sharing, for the benefit of themselves, their community and the world they live in. The essence of their shared time will not be focused on getting something from each other but contributing to their mutual pot. There will be no victims or saviors, no offenders or abusers, no manipulators and no games players. People will use their time together wisely. Each day will be filled with a quality substance that will enrich the personality and the soul. There will not be a need to retrain the childish ego. It will come prepared.
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Time and space
Nowadays: people who are in a relationship are expected to live together under the same roof for most of the time. They share a household, spend their days together, go to work, come back, go to sleep, wake up and meet each other again. So pass the days, the months and the years.
In the future: it will be acceptable and natural for people to be apart from each other for long periods of time (weeks/months). This will happen when one spouse needs a retreat time or simply have to travel for business or other activities. Such separations happen also today but the difference will be that in the future the separation will only be physical! The couple will still be connected on the inner levels, through their telepathic/clairvoyant senses. In their dreams they will meet on a regular basis, converse, share experiences from the passing day and in general will live the life they would have lived in their physical environment ( and yes, they will have sex with each other in the dream world). Time and space will not be separators because people will live in multi-dimensional surroundings.
Fidelity/loyalty
I want to make sure that my words above are not misunderstood. Some of you may think that I describe here a society that will resemble the free love communities of the 60ies. I do not.
In the future, there will be no reason to be with other people, with or without the consent of the "official" spouse. Once the soul is fully embodied in the human form and chooses to be with someone, it doesn't need anyone else. Since the soul is completely capable to satisfy itself, the reasons for exchanging partners will be other than what we know today. In the future, exchanging partners will be a rare occurrence. The rate of divorce will significantly decrease because people will be aware of their spouse's multi-aspects and so they will be intrigued and fascinated by their single loved one whose multi-self will be explored for their entire life time. For instance, they may want to explore their spouse's previous life times, as a soldier during the Second World War or as a woman in the biblical times, and you can imagine how much time it will take to make such explorations. Cheating on your spouse will be considered as a total waste of time in addition to the damages it causes to one's connection with one's soul-self. In fact, the evolutionary process will make sure that infidelity will not survive as a trait in humans.
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Time Frame
The future is already here because there are people who embody within their relationships some of the features I described above. But, as a trend, that way of life will take several decades to reach substantial levels of assimilation among the general public. Until then, more people will choose to remain alone, to not engage in a relationship, but to focus their attention inward. Many marriages will be broken, many relationships will fall apart.
At first, as it is now, people will search for temporary reliefs and remedies. Hedonism, as a desirable way of life, will prevail in the mass consciousness. But the counter shift will come very fast as it will be realized that such a way of life doesn't provide the required answers.
The year 2070 will mark the end of these paradigms shift. By that time the existence of a soul will be scientifically proven and pursuing the bond with it will be the new religion.
But, forget the future, forget humanity. If some of the things I described above speak to your heart you are welcome to adopt those ways of life into your relationships with your spouses.
Make the future a present!
Great post and sharing, very predictive in the near future
Concerning finding a soul mate on future will be due build from the past mistakes people did and that will be a wake up call for individuals intending to be together to be at level footing and this i believe will be divine intervention simply because, it will be easy for some to see what hold inside you to pull them to you and i mean both men and women. That will be the ease by which the future for finding mates will be simplied by the inner being being clearly seen and easily discerned by anybody. It will be clear cut and there will be no room for error.
WIth the relationship of now days are very unsable and many have settled with many partners and in this case there is the issue of sharing mates but i cannot blame anybody here because as for now that's how the world system has implated on the children of God. There is no moral campus for souls now and we always doubt in us where we are with the right people or not. This clearly lives us in a challenging world because of insecurity of who to take on but as you have clearly stated it in the future, i agree with you because the future holds the best of relationship.
With time and space, very true with the changing world when it comes to work and places to sit under will definitely change because long distance normally traveled throughout the globe due job commitments and with that we will live alone for times before seeing our spouses.
Thanks for glancing into the future and i have learned something in this.
i wonder what kind of religion is that, but i hope i'm still alive that year, that way i could witness everything what i could see, hehe. BTW. When it comes to relationships in my future; i always use the tool called "Law of Attraction" visualizing each day what kind of relationship i wanna have, and the universe will conspire, I want to have a romantic, happy, peace wealth and loving family with my future partner, that i always visualized and keep saying repetitively each day until i get what i want automatically. :)
The law of attraction is a mental tool, and as such it has limited creation abilities if at all. However, at lest it focuses the choice.
A lot of us are waiting in the hope of that 'someone' who could probably make true all the cliched stuff that we hear about romance .'Someone who knows me better than myself', 'Someone who knows me to bits and would complete me', ' The one who understands my silence', 'The one before whom I could lay out my most vulnerable self without absolutely any inhibition', so on and so forth. The problem lies in the fact that we hold the other person to such high expectations that we ignore the basic human flaws, the tendency to go wrong, and the different perspective (resulting from his/her experience of life) with which the other person sees the world. The harder we try to believe and live the 'two bodies, one soul' concept, the more elusive it becomes. The other person doesn't love you any less if he failed to understand your intentional silence or erred in finishing your lines. It is time we acknowledge the differences that make each of us the way we are and lower our unrealistic expectations while exploring the different hues of love together.
Indeed.
Time to remind my post about the myth of the twin soul
https://steemit.com/advice/@nomad-magus/i-yearn-to-meet-my-one-and-live-happily-ever-after-is-the-twin-soul-idea-real-or-a-myth
Your 2070 mark is very interesting.
There is also a guy named Tom.T.Moore, who says that scientists won't find out before the 2500s that the pineal gland is NOT a residual organ but fully functioning.
He also says that Earth will "prepare for the stars" not before the 2700s, and that his own next lifetime will be in the 3500 era as a female pilot of one of a total 14 spaceships on Earth. The way he receives these insights is very similar to the way I receive mine, so I found. He knows a little bit about his next four lifetimes.
Anyway, he also says that by that time frame, Humans' life expectation will have extended well above 150 years, and that those who embark on those space journeys will be separated from their parents and loved ones for several years, even decade, and that Awareness will have expanded on a collective level to an extend that telepathic dream sharing will be the way to go to not feel too separated.
There are infinite timelines, so there are plenty of probablities depending on collective Soul frequency, yet very interesting indeed.
Indeed, interesting!
Thanks for bringing this to my awareness 😊👍
Good content,@nomad-magus..
Feeling and emotion will decrease on future relation,,I think future relation will not do with feelings,,there must involve a selfishness and have a effect of brain,,Relation is a art where two sexual creature attracted by emotion and there have a feeling for each other,,thanks for sharing,,
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Emotions that evoke drama, no.
Feelings from the soul level, oh yes!
Good observation, mate! 👍
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I can relate to this so much. Am this type of person that has always feared to be alone. When one relationship ends I rush and jump into another because most times am afraid of being alone. And if you say the future is now, then I believe I must make the future become the present now. I must stop this soonest. Thanks @nomad-magus it's search an interesting post. I like reading about relationships
Wat i think it holds ....
Is a relationship which will last for mere days and trust me ppl r going to b ok with it...
A relationship thats goin to end a week after marriage...
A relationship thats goin to sink like titanic did ...
No body is goin to care abt it
There will not be an attachment as there is now.
I still hold firmly to the idea that couples will be formed that will walk with each other, in monogamy, for hundreds of years together.
I agree. Some thoughts of people are delusional.
But seriously people shouldn't take the relationships as a joke, I know people do.
All the relationships are important in life ,they can help you get over the mental trauma of routine life and make your life a lively one. It's time we appreciate and respect these relationships.
Great post and share views @nomad-magus
According to my personal view .. Along with increasing numbers in our age, our perspective on things can also change. Influenced by the experience that has been, it does not matter if I used to think A and now I think B. It does not mean plinplan, I just experienced the development. The love question is the same. When I was a teenager and today my way of loving and being loved must be different. May I hope for a marvelous love story in Waltz Disney movies. But now that I am an adult, I know that love is not just about the story of ROMANSA. I did not think long to start a love story. Now many considerations that I have before say ('yes') need a lot of consideration to find a life partner. When I was a teenager, having a boyfriend was everything. In fact, I often feel ashamed when my friends have a boyfriend, while I'm still alone. The issue of relationships I have never considered complicated. When I want to start a relationship I do not have to think long. My principle: live it. at least I have a girlfriend who can shuttle to mana.lol .... Now that I'm an adult, starting a relationship is no longer as easy as turning the palm of the hand. Many things that I consider before answering ('yes'). Now what I think is not just a moment's love and the most important thing is a date when the night comes, but it's far ahead. When my family has put expectations, while to live forever with someone, I certainly do not want careless. The passionate love story I used to call true love. The more mature, emotional maturity is more mainstream mature in emotion. Love in my teenage years may be synonymous with a passionate feeling. The sense of losing just because you have not met a day already feels so much more torturous than math homework. If you miss, yes just have to meet somehow. If angry, just a dozen. Emotion is what I do first, and think of it as true love.
Thanks for this @nomad-magus
I knew this feeling as a teenager.
Fortunately, we matured 👍
As My Act Increases, Love For Me Changes. The more I am Adult, The Relationship Not Only Problem Romansa, but it's all a life full of mismatched intersection
Seemingly mismatched!
Actually, each and every failed relationship was perfect in advancing you one step further towards the final goal. Enlightenment. The ultimate relationship.
yes ,,, I also want to be a true man is he who always loves and is able to appreciate women completely. He will love the woman not only from the physical but the whole, including his personality and dreams. A true man is able to fall in love with all things related to the woman he adores. This can be proven from how he always support and love the hobby and dreams that are being pursued by his partner. In addition to loving women wholeheartedly, a true man will also appreciate the whole woman. He will treat a woman like a queen because it is she who reigns in the kingdom of his heart. In her eyes, her partner is the most beautiful woman in the world and she will not hesitate to praise her. The true man also expects the same love and appreciation that he has given her, to get a real Woman! not as easy as turning a hand-it takes a beating for enlightenment
This situation of artificial scarcity also causes people to want to compete with each other, which further causes them to develop anti-social and even predatory behavior. You can no doubt imagine that person A might eventually become so desperate that they might try to seduce one or more of the other individuals that are tied in exclusive relationships. Or in case person B and H were also single, then they might have to compete against each other for person A. And in that process, things often get very ugly, as we know from what's currently going on in reality in our societies around the world. In competing for a partner, people begin to lie and deceive each other, become jealous, and in extreme cases even become violent.
Indeed.
Once one is connected with the infinite source of free energy, free and unlimited love, one will realize there is no need to compete.
Every love is created by God, who loves each and every one of the young, who is clear and beautifully reveals God through love. I think that every love is very beautiful and very smooth every love is related to each other and completely flowing with each other.
The person who loves you for which you can wait for the life of your life every moment of your life every time you want to be able to spend the time you want to be loved by someone whom you see is touching your heart so that you need to understand who you If you love waiting for someone to love and be patient for you It will be a special duty.
Sir, @nomad-magus thanks for written those types of beautiful concept.
Please take my pleasure and honor.
via con dios
Go with god and love will find you.
Thank you for the kind words 🙏
I find it difficult to accept those ideals as what to expect in the future. Truth is we would love a society of that nature but in reality, it seems we move away from such ideals with everyday. Looking at the occurring trends in relationship, except some supernatural forces or special implants are made to our brains, then one can only conclude that the society will go opposite the ideals you listed up there for the future.
There will be two, three, even four different worlds, coexisting next to each other.
So again, the question remains
which you, which world?
That's more like it. I hope many will see how happy they would be to live in the world you describe above and makes it come to be in their own world. I have already decided long ago, so I'm not waiting for the future, I'm living in the future. Thanks for this article..
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Everyone would want a lasting romance to a happy marriage. Only, the desire to establish a relationship of love that durable and harmonious will not be realized if there is no attempt to realize it. I have a dream to be able to see the peace in this world. without any violence. My hope is that everyone lives in peace. and people can live a peaceful life with their partner. like lyrics jhon lennon imagine
John Lenon was an idealists. Good for his time. We have so many of them nowadays. What we lack are "practicalists"
Human relationships are so complicated that sometimes I wonder why I (and every other person) are crazy enough to get involved in the first place.
I mean, its just bonkers, the fact that I have my needs, faults, attractions, principles, ideologies and this person I meet has these things, except that his/hers differs in one or two places. Considering the fact that these things are important to each of us, we should be at each other's throat all the time because of the conflict of interest. When I suffer injury from the next person, I should just turn around and leave, get as far away as possible, right?
... Because we feel that through relationships we can grow the fastest.
We are born, and like our parents before us, we meet people from the very first day of our life, creating bonds to form familial relationships (with our parents, sisters, brothers); friendships; romantic relationships and ultimately the society in general. We (being most of us) don't at any point think, 'You know what? I've just about had it. I've been hurt enough. I'm going to get away from this people (person) hurting me and move so far away that no one will ever see me again.' We suffer these hurts, stick it out, take shit after shit and in the best case scenario, work out our problems, moving past them.
... Because we feel that through relationships we can grow the fastest.
In the future: people will not need to go through several relationships for the sake of learning.
This is what I underline
Sentences that I have never found before, and this will be my rote.
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That is true! And when they eventually find someone to spend the rest of their life’s with, than they worry about dying this loved one, about abandoning him. We will always worry to be alone, whether you are alone or whether you are in a relationship.
This one is hard to imagine. I guess that’s the future for future generations. Just like you mentioned “it will take decades”. How I see the future as well when it comes to relationships is just like today. I see people holding their smartphones, living in their own world, except instead of smartphones it will be robot, AI or whatever they will call it. People will have relationships with this robotic person. They will fall in love. They will have sex...
It's already happening now. Some couples communicate like this.
This stems from my life looking for a life partner. Maybe I am one of the millions of people who have been dating many times but the relationship should just run aground with a variety of reasons.From children in high school, the chairman of BEM on campus, student achievement, or colleagues, may have long been in touch with them, all types are already trying, but unfortunately the relationship must end and more to end up is "DIPPED." Or maybe I was a long time and asked, "Why not have a boyfriend? "I will reply with the excuse" No one is right yet This kind of case has often happened in a romantic relationship and it's very natural because 60% of people must have been the same One finds the right thing to be everyone's dream, not just for people a single one, but also for people who have been dating many times but unfortunately for couples with a variety of reasons, or even people who already have have a boyfriend but they are all the right people. It's just a different level. There is a specific so-called 'voter'. There is also a type of 'ACCEPTING REALITY' want to be what kind. Typically, the graphic content of the chart dives. For example Sisca who crave men 180 cm tall, muscular, and romantic. Then there is the Word that really ensures his partner someday is a woman who has a motherhood and good at cooking. Or you already have a list of criteria of your spouse's potential. However, does the criterion-the answer really have to find the right person?
These are human based things, like a list of criteria. People who focus on them mostly will keep entering and exiting relstiondhips.
In any relationship, there will be frightening spells in which our feelings of love dry up. And when that happens we must remember that the essence of marriage is that it is a covenant, a commitment, a promise of future love. So we do the acts of love, despite your lack of feeling. we may not feel tender, sympathetic, and eager to please, but in our actions w e must be tender, understanding, forgiving and helpful. And, if we do that, as time goes on we will not only get through the dry spells, but they will become less frequent and deep, and we will become more constant in our feelings. This is what can happen if we decide to love
Now a days relationship mean just enjoy body. But they don't get the supreme joy. Relationship os a sea where you can swim anywhere as you wish
You are describing some ideal conditions and I doubt we'd see them become universal in this time and age. But I do believe individuals can reach this level and I greatly resonate with the things you have described.
We have probably passed a time where this was the norm and there will be a future where this will be the norm again. I've only had some friends from my childhood times but having them allows me to further realize how blissful it'd be to find your soul-mates since childhood.
Amen! Why rent a random car when you have a personalized dream car at home.
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I am very optimistic about the changes I have described. Most of them will be a reality by 2070.
Thanks for the link.
I've seen many different people calling for a great transformation around late 50s to 60s. I don't know if it is just coincidence or not. But I do hope that they'd be right. I can kind of make sense of it but I don't have a crystal ball.
In the 50-70 it was the flower power era. Kumbaya spirituality. It was ok for its time but futile towards personal enlightenment. That's a big difference.
We'll see.
Humans have their respective taqdir, because humans are paired then one day they will find their life partner, while the future will we strive for.
Thanks @nomad-magus
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its so true for future relationship
that a great content of holding future through the relationship.
in futur every person need to adapted with new environment ,
that can be gain by relations.by raising with time need to adapting much..
@nomad-magus sir
i agreed 100% with your opinion
absolutely correct and 200% sure, that all these would happen in the future in a relationship because not everyone will have the time of going through courting and shits like that. the world is now advanced in such a way that it definitely gonn affect almost everything in our life. It was thoughtful of you bringing up such a nice topic. that shows you see ahead of time @nomad-magus
it shows the view of idle speculation..relationship is so great on this views,
for future preparation it requires a foundation of knowledge upon which to base action, a capacity to learn from experience, close attention to what is going on in the present, and healthy and resilient institutions that can effectively respond or adapt to change in a timely manner.
As the consciousness of the individual will expand, the experience will come from other lifetimes. One will not need to experience same things time and again.
its need to hold huminity for future ,,i mean Humanity can expand within this prepare greatly on realionship.its can able to give such a gain in future holding,of course huminity work behinds it no doubt.
Great thoughts about future! I can say that your predictions/vision about the future are quite better compare to the present. You tackled about some issues in a relationship and somewhat you gave solutions to certain problems. Thank you for this post it's actually giving hope to the youth in today's generation just like me.
Indeed.
Hope is one of my reasons to write. Thank you 🙏
We all need a bright future, and it's always I think, so that later on the future of us all. Thank you for posting this very useful for the present generation.
I am very inspired with your post@nomad-magus
The Essence Nowadays:
04 Reason is best for me. Make the future a present.
the future is great to talk about because everyone is thinking about it @nomad-magus.
This is such a great content, about our life.
Thanks to you my friend.
really very excellent photo
perfect.
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