Well if you notice a lot of guys get lazy as fuck when they are in a relationship or married. No one every says they want a husband bod or a dad bod. A lot of it is just being content and people let themselves go.
I will admit that once I got that Bootylicious girls phone number I stepped it up an extra notch in the gym the next few days. I can't be slacking when you are trying to be a spartan... lol
That is funny that girls hint at marriage a couple weeks into a relationship. lol I feel like 90% of people here are just "hanging out" at this point. The ones that are single that is.
Too much security can do that to people. When your relationship is secured by law, then you don't have motivation to stay on your A game. That causes people to feel lazier or not appreciate what they have. When there is that manageable bit of insecurity, you know that you can't afford to devolve like that. When you get married, sex gets a whole lot more boring for many people because of the same reason.
Yeah it is an interesting concept. It is like when someone is subsidized too much. It incentives laziness.
People don't hustle and get too comfortable living on easy street.