You know how it goes right? If I just get that job, car, or relationship I will feel better and be happy. Then what happens? You might feel happy for a while, even for a few years until the feeling of discontent or longing rears its ugly head. Maybe what you have attracted into your life has wounded you again? Old pains and traumas have been triggered and you're back where you started. You start to see history repeating itself all over again. Its at that point that the question needs to be asked, is this just a coincidence or am I supposed to be learning a lesson here? Is there something deeper I have been avoiding?
See the thing is everything in society is designed to keep you constantly looking outside yourself for answers, there is so much noise around us what with TV, newspapers, media the list goes on. Particularly when you observe how our physical appearance is deemed so much more important than anything else. Sorry but having big muscles and a nice pair of boobs is great and all, but it wont improve the quality of your relationships or the people you draw into your life, especially if you have a lot of unhealed trauma.
Understanding this simple fact that we will be given the experiences which directly correlate to how we feel about ourselves on a subconscious level is vital in order to strive towards true happiness and fulfillment. So for example, if you have a childhood betrayal wound that has not been dealt with, then there is a high chance you will draw people into your life people that may betray you. Why? Because the Universe wants you to heal and move past that wound so you pull in someone more in alignment next time.
I believe we are all here to grow and evolve, if we stagnate and don't see the trends in our lives then we will suffer. I have myself in the past. So if there are trends in your life you are seeing, then chances are there is a necessity for emotional work to be done. You owe it to yourself to stop the rot and live the life you deserve.
Here is a recent video I made where I talk about this and the need to heal the inner child within.
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Thank you so much
I totally agree with you, "self love" well i call mine "self crush"
Yea you can't love someone else untill you love yourself!
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Self-Love. AKA Self-Worship.
AKA Luciferian Doctrine. Not a fan of it ... and you've just labeled yourself incapable of genuine caring for anyone but yourself. Gross.
And also, in objection to your whimsy thought vs. thousands of years of scripture that seems to actually WORK FUNCTIONALLY. You're just making the type-one error of believing that you're responsible for chance. And ya not. Biblically, anything done without Love is fruitless. And in real life, the same is true.
Love of yourself does Not Count.
You lost me at the bible Im afraid
Great article and video too. Was your training in Internal Family Systems?
I too have been working with this method for years and can attest to the great healing it brings about. The work continues throughout a lifetime I believe. Be nice if we all only had one or two trauma's to overcome. Some of the extreme trauma's take a lifetime of special care and allowance for ourselves and those protective parts of ourselves that have worked so tirelessly on our behalves.
I'm finally getting to the point where I am understanding we don't just work with an inner part of ourselves until we understand and empathize with the issue (how the attitude/behavior came into being), but that we must love ourselves fiercely and with lifetime commitment in mind.