The Last Few Days of My Life

in #hermitlife7 years ago (edited)

Wow, that title sounded morbid as fuck...

But really, it could be the last days of my life, none of us knows when that day will come, I could die right now and it would be left for @hendrix22 to press post. I should really stop though because talking about death makes others uncomfortable and you know how I just hate to make anyone uncomfortable by saying awkward truths ;)

Probably better to say, what I've gotten myself up to these last couple days.

I left my neighbourhood!

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That's a big deal for me. I haven't been getting out into society much lately (and by lately I mean the last 3 years). I've been loving the Hermit life. Protecting my energy feels good after many years of being forced to be around a lot of people through various jobs, and all the running around...society drains me.

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Brendan @hendrix22 surprised me early in the day Thursday by coming home and taking me out to lunch. I picked "John's Lunch" as our spot. It's all the way in Dartmouth (which is even further than Halifax) yet the place has won awards for its food. Very inexpensive, totally small and run down looking building, and the best damn seafood you'll ever have.

I Can Show You Some Different Sites

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They're not pretty like the photos I take around here...but at least it's a new scene for you all.

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Brendan loves society as much as me, just look at the joy on his face...

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Cities...

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Always glad to see them in my rearview mirror.

Super Beautiful & Warm Morning Today

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Kiedis and Stryder in shorts. And mittens. I know, random hey? They were trying to stand up the ol' Christmas Tree in the last remaining pile of snow and that snow was freezing their little hands. Unfortunately the snow wouldn't hold the tree up for them, so they went and got a rain barrel to be the tree's new stand. Good job boys!

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The Chickens are Happy

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The Crows are Happy

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Dinner at Craig & @MarionBowes' Tonight

It's so great that we live just down the road from each other...ahhh...don't even have to leave the bay. We had taco night and played rummoli afterwards with the kids. Marion's gonna be leaving on a trip soon, sniff sniff, we had to get together before she's gone to Ontario.

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Marion and Stryder

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A beautiful, colourful meal.

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Always gotta give some love to Joey cat. He did not want to pose for any photos tonight, big surprise...

So here's his butt.

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And the side of his head.

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@EddieBowes dealing. He was also winning at the point of me taking this photo, but it didn't end well for him...it didn't end well for anyone, except @MarionBowes! The Ultimate winner of the night. Congrats Marion!

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Goodnight Everyone, thanks for witnessing my Journey.

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Wow its wonderful journey! Excellent photo shots. Thanks for sharing us.

Wow! The city is so fucking busy! I mean I can't believe how many fucking boats there are! Although I have to say that picture you took in the mirror is totally bitchin :D And the cats ass! HAHA :p Happy to see those chicken bitches are still bitchin' on. Cock a DOODLE FUCKING DOO @haejin!

Sorry, that'll be the most swearing you will get out of me for a month lol. Love the pictures @lyndsaybowes. It is nice to get out there once in a while if anything just for the change. Keep strong! Love your posts! They are beautiful, kind and always sharing other people's post helping them out with care. I especially love the #OPHumanAngels posts and how you share all those people that do it to in your own blog. What an awesome person you are! A truly amazing and deserving human being. Wishing you all the best. Let no man bring you down and have all your loved ones and fellow steemians bring you love and light! XX Keep on keeping on <3<3

this has got to be one of my favorite replies in all my life time. Hello I am @lyndsaybowes MIL. too funny..I love it

Hello hello :D Nice to meet you. I spoke with true meaning :p And had to get something off my chest lol. Enjoy the evening! Cheers :)

Love you beautiful SiSTAR!! <3 <3 <3 Thanks for your comment of epic proportions!! *SMILES!! Laugh!!

A beautiful one. I can see you had a 'city-ful' swell time, it's good you visit once in a while but city life sucks. Look at all those cars and then try calculating the volume of pollution going on there. But well I am glad you sneaked away with Brendan on a lunch date. Now gossip time, how did it go? Hahaha .......
That table at Marion's sure looks so inviting awww....... I better stop looking!

The lunch was definitely worth the drive, we ate until we were in "food comas" and floated out to the van :) :) It was nice to have some alone time with each other, thanks for asking, I'll gossip to you anytime Edith :) :) Hugs Sis!!

, we ate until we were in "food comas" and floated out to the van

I could just imagine ! The pizzas, the buns, the salads and all those fruit-shakes, who wouldn't ravenously Wolf them down? I would! I am happy you are happy. Lots of love and hugs sis. Xoxo

Hello @lyndsaybowes

I should say consolidation for getting out into the society, what according to you, you rarely do in the time past. Kudos to @hendrix22 for being an awesome person showing so much care. I really love the scenery. And perhaps I will be forced to get into the society from this end today. Hahaha. Stay cool.

@eurogee, the founder of @euronation community

Yes, life is uncertain and anything may happen at any time. We have to enjoy each moment. Thanks.

your journey very pleasant,, I felt comforted of journey you share.
Mr. pendock will be sad if you share your love for cats it..!! :)
thanks @lyndsaybowes

HAHA!! You are right, I cannot let him know! I have to go wash my clothing right away so Mr. Pendock does not smell Mr. Joey Cat on me! :) :) :) :) Love it.

hhahahah ... you are right!!
don't let mr.pendock jealous :)

life will surely die, and all will stop, nobody will spend the meal on the table, not even nobody will save future generations. wherefore, before death comes, finish all life today.

It's now very common to hear people say, 'I'm rather offended by that.' As if that gives them certain rights. It's actually nothing more... than a whine. 'I find that offensive.' It has no meaning; it has no purpose; it has no reason to be respected as a phrase. 'I am offended by that.' Well, so fucking what.

Stephen Fry, love him.

Yay hermit life!! I dig that. The city is so gross looking anyway...
I got out yesterday for an adults only adventure :) It was pretty nice.
I can't believe the boys are in shorts haha, silly little dudes ♡

YAY for adult adventures! I bet it was a blast <3 <3 <3 What did you guys get up to?

We went to an Asian grocery store and bought some spicy ramen, went to the movies and saw Annihilation, went to The Fickle Frog and had some food, then the grocery store :) Busy afternoon! Twas a nice time :)

What? Three years? You really are a hermit life enthusiast. 😉

Aah...It's so glad to see you take us to new place. It's good to see your friends and husband 🙂.

And it's good to see you @kayya.muleeya! Thank you so much for stopping by <3

I like the minimalism of the crow capture, biting off more that it can chew!!!

Thank you @cognoscere <3 <3 I love watching them stuff as much as they can into their beaks and carrying it back off to their families.

Got out of Hackett's Cove? Interesting! Then lunch IN the city? Wonderful! You were having so much fun and I missed you, but it's good to occasionally go out and have fun after all there's only one life to live. Welcome back ma and thank you for sharing.

Aw, you're so sweet, thanks for all the good vibes @eleaza <3 xo

You are very much welcome ma

Yes, the city takes energy. Your photos show the difference between city life and calm and clean nature. In the city, practically, it is impossible to rest - a lot of people, cars, a lot of activity, dirty air, vanity, and constant race ahead - there is no time to stop and calmly rest. And nature - pacification, cheerfulness, clean air, good mood. You can see life and enjoy life! I, too, do not like the city! I love nature and life :))

We are lucky to be able to only visit the city. <3 <3 <3 I love to be in nature all of the time xoxo

I don't like cities either. I prefer smaller towns and out of the way places. Awesome taco night! Joey cat seems to be a bit antisocial, just like our Mr. Frisky! lol

Awww... Mr. Frisky sounds sooooooooo cute, I love that name!! <3 <3 What kind of cat?

Not sure...His momma was a stray who came to have her litter in our garage. She took off way too early and my son raised the kittens. He found homes for three and kept Mr. Frisky. We think he is just a short haired domestic but momma had the look of part Persian...

He sounds lovely <3

Good for you to brave the city. It's not always easy to do. Especially when there's so much more room in the country! Regardless, it looked like you two had fun getting to go on a date.

Thanks so much @themanwithnoname, are you a country boy?

Not quite. Though, I've spent a fair amount of time out there. Looking at your homestead and @papa-pepper's homestead make me think that might be the direction I want to go. It would be a lot of work, but also very rewarding.

Nothing like working for our own betterment <3 Just wish we could do even more but it costs money to get set up 100% off grid, so we do what we can with what we have <3 Much Luck and Blessings for your journey!!

At least you got out and had some good time.
About the death question.... personal experience, dying doesn't hurt... coming back does. Like a bitch!
Steem on!

Thank you for sharing your wisdom with me @aschartia! :) :) I'll keep it in mind <3

Well Rodger me rigid with a big stick. People still get uptight about bad language. Man take a look at whats happening around you man. There are far worse things happening in this world than a word could ever be considered bad.
What a great evening you had @lyndsaybowes I will scrub roundnthe city bits as I dislike them too. You have a great family and doesn't @marionbowes put on a good spread. I have been fortunate enough to have met her over the last year and am proud to call her my friend. Moments like that are precious and must be cherished because as you say anyone ofnus could die at any time. So live everyday as ifnit were your last because one day you will be right. Big Love respect and blessings on you and your family Lyndsay 💜💜💜💜💜💜😎😎

Awww, thanks so much for loving my Mom in Law so, she's a pretty cool lady indeed!!

Yep, someone needs to learn the Fuck Off Religion lolol :) :)

Purple hearts..no doubt

Hi Lyndsay 💜💙💚
Good for you for getting out! Wow, such a clear day. I wonder if the clearness is a new illusion omg!! Who the fuck 👃.

It is an honour to witness your journey!! A real treasure. Honestly💋 big ol red lipstick kiss on the forehead. Holy Hannah. Do you have a link for undesignating sp? How the L do you keep track of all the things!!! I hope i book marked how to delegate. That was really slick. Good experience. Do you go on discord? I joined up with the @asapers there. I am lucky to be helping the group get going!! Steem is fuggin amazing. Talk about next gen entertainment. Holla!

What do you think about Rob's stance on the battle?

Peace babe. We got this.

I'll message you on facebook.

That means same characters, with some new guest appearances and a brand new location for #WalkWithMe future episodes :)

HAHA! You know us so well Goel xoxo

I like this one, epic , visiting our family is the best way to enjoying life @Lindsay ;)

Thank you, my Mother in Law always sets a fine table <3 <3 <3

Totally get the hermit thing. Why else would I love a beach with no one on it but me? Also love to sit snuggled in up here on the hill looking down at the world. Seeing no one if I dont want too. Lovely feeling having all this power of being retired. I can choose the days I want to join in with life and then I can choose the days when it's all about me and my sanctuary. Thanks again for a super evening. xxxxx much love

You deserve it <3 <3 <3 The retired life <3 <3 <3

Thanks again for having us, it was a great time as usual!!

Kids are getting pretty sharp at games eh?

Truly! I can't get over how adept they are at playing. Way better than I could keep up with the adults at their age.

little sharks...hee. everytime I scroll down past the food i get hungry

Lindsay, it's good to sometimes spend time in a circle of nice people. I see You've had fun. A change of scenery, too, need to unwind a little bit. Great photos from your trip. A pleasant weekend. Thank you for sharing.

Thanks for coming along again Madlen, is the weather warming up there yet?

Oh no Lindsay :) . You're lucky with the weather a lot more. We have received a warning from the Ministry of Emergency Situations about the strengthening of frosts from today. It is expected that the temperature will fall below -30 degrees Celsius. Therefore, I will have to temporarily refrain from walks. My power of voice requires recharging and I am very sorry that there is no way to give you as much as you deserve. Thank You!

Ooh sorry to hear about the cold weather still persisting <3 <3 I really look forward to your spring photos soon :) And I too need to charge my VP, it's all good, I totally understand!

We never know, when we really leave them ,,,
Before that happens, enjoy living with them ,,,
I was just left by a friend ,,,
I've let it go, but I can not be like him ,,,
He never troubles people and he always does good ...
His departure left deep wounds for all ...

I remember your sweet friend, and I send my love to you again <3 <3

Thanks for the photos. Gotta say - that is one industrial looking city. But if you ask me any city that you can't get around on foot isn't really worthy of the name "city." Parking lots should come second to people.

Marion's a card shark, huh? I'll remember not to place any big bets if we get together!

Yea we're gonna have to play with monopoly money!!

To be fair, that parking lot is a park and ride for the ferry that goes from Dartmouth to Halifax <3

Have a little gander at my post 50 reasons why I love Nova Scotia. Different area and perspective. Same City. That restaurant is in an industrial area for sure. Ya watch it, I will take all your money if you play cards with me. :)))))

What's that card game y'all are playing?

It's called rummoli. It's a poker and rummy game <3 <3 Glad we didn't play for real money hahaha!!

It looks like a card game called Tripoly I used to play.. very fun... especially for real money 😁

Ooh never heard of Tripoly...sounds fun!

Lots of love for bringing us the most beautiful posts and photos. Stay happy and healthy and keep on prospering. Is this your family? The kids are super cute.

Those are our 3 sons <3 <3 Thanks, I'm pretty biased, they are so cute hehehe <3

Hell yes to the hermit life! All i did today was bake and paint. It was glorious. 😍❤

I'm so glad you had a wonderful in day <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

It was cool to see some different sights with you. I love the expanse under that beautiful bridge.

Here in tthe south, the crappier, more run down the building the better the food!!!

Ya, the run down looking places can pack a big surprise at times!

Ever so awesome of an evening and Yahoo I did win...Big time. hee...did I teach everyone how to win with grace...I dont know. I was kind of gloating...great food. You know @lyndsaybowes, when I go to the city I take such nice pictures. How did you find all the ugly stuff about the city. :))) Except of course John's Lunch. Always the best Seafood around. Although I love going over the Bridge, gives me such a unique feeling. Next time let's go to John's Lunch on the ferry. The economy harbor tour. Fun night as always... what's with my stand offish cat eh. ?
Much Love xxxxx

If I posted all of the Blur Cat photos where they just turn away, y'all would groan. You gotta play paparazzi with cats to get some good shots. 😁

Yes and Joey sets the tone...always. Sometimes he is Mr. Hollywood. Not tonight. Pissed off actually because I would not let him out on the deck only to turn around in 3.2 seconds and come back in..Drives me batty. :))

Cats are just demonstrating superposition all the time. Simultaneously wanting to be inside and outside!

Yes. truly as cats never have masters, only staff.

BWa hahahhaaaaaa papparazzi <3 <3 <3 Nice one Phe <3 <3

I only take good photos of things and people I love <3 <3 <3

Food...mmmmmm serious about the Ferry though. We are going on the Ferry next time with the kidlets.

HEY that’s pretty mich like me. I also slap truths in people’s faces and they get uncomfortable.

I wonder though that why can’t they handle truths. But anyway, I also feel drained in a monotonous life of society. Being a writer on steemit is so much relaxing.

Haha I really like the way u put things up. Like the side and butt of the cat, and that the crows and chicks are happy🤣

Dont know about others but i find it funny.

And Tasty food 🥘 😋

Nice post as always 😃

Keep it up :)
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That's awesome @himshweta! I'm always happy to meet a kindred spirit like you <3 <3

Me too dear :) It's good to see you :)

wao, a great post of your last days of life, the last days are so wonderful and exciting to see , the colorful meal was looking delicious and tasty, and the chickens are also looking happy and the cat was looking cute, the natural beauty and the friends all just shoe the wonderful and memorable last days of your life .
Life is precious and one should live a life to a memorable days , these life moments will always remember in a whole life ahead.

Thank you for visiting us @ailsamoon :) xo Life is indeed precious...

This an admitted fact that one day we shall die but before we die, we have to live with full zeal & zest to make our lives proud.
This is the symbol of love indeed <3

Brendan @hendrix22 surprised me early in the day Thursday by coming home and taking me out to lunch.

Every member of the family is so loveable & i have huge respect for all these beautiful souls of Bowes Family :-) :-)

Thank you for sharing your words of wisdom about life with me @salmanbukhari54, and for the respect you show to our family. I appreciate you writing me so often <3

I was like, wait, that's not a chicken! 😂😂 The crows are gonna come hang out in the greenhouse with Mr. Pendock some day.
I'm glad you had an adventure, but totally understand about the hermit life. Some days the city just overwhelms me. I haven't left my apartment since that WWM in the snow. I can't wait to find my forest and go live there.
Well ya know, we've seen chicken butt so it was appropriate to see cat butt. 😉

Aww, yeahhhh, little fluffy cat butts hahahahaa, at least his tail was down :)

I can't wait for you to find your perfect spot in the woods...I'm always holding that vision for you <3 <3

It's good to switch it up a bit. especially for family. :)
Love the card game photos. Good times!

Thanks Doc :) What's your favourite card game?

We play lots of Gin Rummy and Uno over here. :)

Yes lyndsaybowes, we do not know when we will die, by doing good we can feel the good at the end of our lives, we will be remembered and liked by many people.

The journey is amazing, I really enjoy it, I seemed to participate in your adventure.
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Hahaha .. the weather is warm, I do not like it because I miss more snow :) :) .. what do you think?
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I'm so glad to see them again <3 <3
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Ueemm .. delicious, colorful , I want to try your cooking .. haha
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Amazing family..
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Incredible journey, thank you @lyndsaybowes

Thank you for coming along today, the food is by my beautiful In-laws <3 <3

Hahaha .. waw, but I want to keep trying it, at least joining with you there <3 <3

I feel the same way you do about cities. Although, I'm sure it was nice to get away with your hubby for a bit. I can't wait for the time we can move away into the country. You are so blessed to have a great family and to live where you do

I hope you guys can get out in the country soon Michael xo :) :)

Your family completes you
The journey is great and
it is better to think that we have another day to live our life rather than thinking we will die someday

Very true, thanks for sharing your wisdom with me.

Inspirational family, your simplicity makes me become motivated, hopefully the problems you experience immediately disappear. we really hope you are healthy always.

Thank you so much sweetie!

@lyndsaybowes, Yep...You see after 02 days. You catches glorious outstanding captures outside of neighborhood. Best lunch location selected. Is it very cheap-able more than others? Outstanding scenery indeed Harbor location. What's a name this harbor? Lot of cars unloaded harbor area. Both kiddies tremendous job there. Chicken family happy again with good temperature. Couldn't find Mr. Pendock. Nice delicious meal provided and It made me hungry. Kitten is so cute.. Congrats marion.

The name of the harbour is "Halifax Harbour".

Yes, the lunch is very cheap for how good the food is. They could make it more expensive, but the owner keeps it cheap, and everyone loves it there. Their food is addictive haha!! :) :)

What a amazing photography it is!just heart touch😍😍

always nice shot,
you always make me spirit, with you post @lyndsaybowes
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Ha! Right on, so good to see you in the side view mirror @raill :) :) Thanks for sharing!

😄😄😄😄😄 thank you very much

Excellent post. Such a wonderful and amazing photography. I appreciate your work. Keep it up. Wish you avery happy and bright future.

@lyndsaybowes I would love to come to this place, beautiful place and also nice scenery, when can i come here

Whoooooa, great and wonderful pictures. Good photos at it best. Great job. Cute write up.

amazing
..photography thank you...so much for sharing....

I like to read every post you...Upvote and follow you!

Indeed life is so our friend will not know when we will find the name of death, only we as a creature just prepare for because although how the death can not we face, I upvote and resteem friends

family is wonderful, i like your nice post

a very entertaining story, I love your journey, is it in the picture above your family? they look very cute, and it seems like you have a very beautiful family, I really like it very much..

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