Oh this is sad to hear...
You know, sometimes though - a relationship just finds its natural end. And we might fight to stay in that friendship for longer because we feel that we have so many years invested in it.
But do we?
Or is it just time passing and we are counting up the years as something valuable, when really - we haven't been pouring anything INTO that friendship.
Sometimes people just realize this after too long, and it comes more as a shock to our pride that someone would want to let the relationship go... but we have to ask ourselves - HAVE WE been true friends? or have we just let things slide into complacency?
I don't know - from what you read, it sounds like the girl is really truly sad - but you know what? If it was meant to be, it can be rekindled again.
She might just need to fight for it! She can show up at the friends house with a gift of friendship - she can write a sweet note of appreciation... she can surprise her by taking her out on a little girlfriend date...
if she really wants it back , she can fight for it and see what happens :)
Yes, I also believe that some friendships are meant to end in some ways but we feel so hurting when we didn't expect it to go down that way especially knowing how much time we have invested in it. Though we all have our reasons, but sometimes, we shouldn't let the little or tiny mistakes destroy what has been built for years. Then if it happens, it means such a person do not value the relationship right from time.
I told my friend to be patient too. I do want to visit both of them, take them out on an outing so we can talk and resolve things back, but at the moment, I am having some responsibilities I really need to handle in my family. Then, I would think of travelling over to their state. This is my intention.
While waiting for that, I will keep telling my friend to always chat her up, call her, text her so the other one would know she still cares. Perhaps, that might make her change her mind. I hope so.
Thank you so much, Momma 💕