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RE: Disdain things you cannot have.... Ignoring them is the best revenge

in Emotions & Feelings • 3 years ago

I am glad you are taking care of yourself. It is very important.

It sounds like calling and texting actually ARE his thing, but only when he needed something, not when you did.

In my experience with people like this, the moment they are ignored or neglected (even slightly) and notice it, they frequently make an insane amount of effort to call or text. This is ego -- you are no longer a fish on their hook and it upsets them. I mention this because he might be back with grand gestures and promises, but I think they would ultimately be empty. Hopefully, he is just gone, but it is good to have a strategy for how to deal with him if he shows up somehow.

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     3 years ago  

    I learned to take care of myself a long time. Initially, it wasn't easy to do so but I am glad I am slowing doing them.

    Yes, that's exactly what I noticed too. Texting and calling only became his thing when he needed something..

    Well, he won't be able to do the insane ego calling and texting no more because I changed my contacts details.

    That's what I meant when I said I was giving him the chance to not have to call and since I won't be expecting it either, no one get hurt or angry about the other person.

    Thank you so much for your support @harlowjourney. Much appreciated ❤️💚❣️

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