@khaleesii, you bring up some valid points, I can definitely see where career choices could make a difference in finding your soul mate.
And the pandemic has probably been very tough on those looking for love, with all the quarantining that has been required this past year and a half.
If you know in advance some things in your heart that would make a true love match difficult it might be easier to avoid starting an involvement with a partner that you are predisposed not to be compatible with. But sometimes cupid's arrow finds us regardless of what we were looking for, lol.
I'm coming to your post from @dreemport.
The pandemic has been awful on those finding love, even in my case I wonder if it is even possible at this point hence I have been trying to research on different variables but hopefully cupid comes to our rescue.