I have to admit, I am very glad to have been born into a different society than the one you’ve described, @sunnyag. It seems so humiliating. I do have a lot of respect for native customs and rituals, but that one…. Wow.
I heard all this during my visit to an Asian country in 2016 not far away from my own country. I was there on an official visit when a local coworker explained everything. I knew some of it but the detail left me shocked.
Sorry, I will not disclose the name of the country but it's not far off from you or me. It's as cruel as various other traditions in Asia and Africa. I didn't want to write about it but someone mentioned something similar that forced me to write what I saw almost five years ago.
@sunnyag I read your words which broke me, I am not pointing out towards that specific culture where this humiliating tradition happens, and each day hundreds of such honesty cases are degrading the women in the name of honor.
Lack of education literally for them marriage means only sexuality.
Such terrifying demonstrate arch last years through social media I acknowledged that in Asia more specifically in India these cultures are more common. I have no words to condemn.
But yes the title you have given provoked me to write about this subject.
Sorry @ayesha-malik this tradition isn't from India but a country on the border of Asia and Africa. I would not name the country but probably you can guess the name. I can give you the proof of that.
I have to admit, I am very glad to have been born into a different society than the one you’ve described, @sunnyag. It seems so humiliating. I do have a lot of respect for native customs and rituals, but that one…. Wow.
I heard all this during my visit to an Asian country in 2016 not far away from my own country. I was there on an official visit when a local coworker explained everything. I knew some of it but the detail left me shocked.
Ooopppsssm.... I HATE THIS 🙆♂️
Seriously, how can they live with such barbaric tradition?
It's insane. It's disturbing and it's too ugly
Daymn those shitty villagers. Damn the tradition and everything therin.
I've said it before. I don't waste time to criticize any tradition that doesn't go down well with him. We have some ugly traditions here too.
But like I always say, "as for me and my house, we will have no hand in anything that doesn't suit me well"😏
Which country is this?
Sorry, I will not disclose the name of the country but it's not far off from you or me. It's as cruel as various other traditions in Asia and Africa. I didn't want to write about it but someone mentioned something similar that forced me to write what I saw almost five years ago.
Yeah... Asking for the country is a joke on my part. But really, how do people live in this world?
We'd have alot oh silly stuff going on here and I'm never a fan or supporter of such.
Glad to see you bringing this to our doorstep
And this is not country specific but it's universal. Even the most advanced countries have this tradition in one way or the other.
@sunnyag I read your words which broke me, I am not pointing out towards that specific culture where this humiliating tradition happens, and each day hundreds of such honesty cases are degrading the women in the name of honor.
Lack of education literally for them marriage means only sexuality.
Such terrifying demonstrate arch last years through social media I acknowledged that in Asia more specifically in India these cultures are more common. I have no words to condemn.
But yes the title you have given provoked me to write about this subject.
Sorry @ayesha-malik this tradition isn't from India but a country on the border of Asia and Africa. I would not name the country but probably you can guess the name. I can give you the proof of that.
Alright, but as I have viewed the same norms in the mentioned country that's why I said that.
You must have seen virginity test but I talked about Bridal test
Maybe you have distinct observations.
But yes you are right,
A VIrginity test is common in the world esp in armed services and at the time of migration etc but Bridal test is different altogether.