Oh, hello there Hives! I hope you all doing great because I do. π Well, yeah I know it took me so long to be back because what I'm gonna share later has been living in my drafts in quite a while now. Why? Because when I supposed to publish this, I felt scared and I wanted to take a little more time. It also stopped me from writing anything else. But now, I'm on it lemme share to you something that completes me even with my imperfections. π
Hey!
"Life is what you make it", oh I just remember my high school teacher telling us this line.
This line actually makes sense when I started to fall in love with a girl the second time around. Yes hives, I'm gay. βΊοΈ
My very first long term relationship was with a girl. I didn't expect it to last so long like almost 3 years? I was undecided when I'm about to enter that relationship, I mean I don't really know if it will work that time but I wanted to try. That was in my college years. But before that I also have male suitors in high school, but all I have in mind that time was to finish first my studies. (Well, not really that studious but it's just not interest me). So when I entered college, a girl courted me and I was a curious infant, an NBSB (no boyfriend since birth). I started my romantic life with a same sexuality.
Until I decided to end that relationship for so many reasons. It was an on and off relationship. My parents don't actually agree on our relationship. And I was just so tired of our situation.
After that, not to disobey my parents I had a boyfriend or two? But it just don't work for me. I don't know but fate don't even agree.
So, I wished upon so many stars to find what I'm really looking for...
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I finally found the one for me... π
ma vie (my life)
It was not an easy road for both of us because of my mom. Like what I said, she don't agree. But having known myself for such a long time, I fought for what makes my heart so happy and comfortable. I have shown to them how much I love being with her. But with a grateful heart, finally, my family accepted me for who and what I really am especially my mom. It's a lot more gratifying to feel the love around from the people I love.
Now, we are on our 7th year being in a relationship and counting. ππ
tats are forever and so are we πβ₯οΈ
My life started to become more meaningful when I met her. She is the one who makes me feel so precious because of the love she has for me. She taught me to believe in myself . She's there especially when I most need her. But what's more to her is that she loves my family same as hers. I also have figured out my life's direction, and finally settled on my career. Everything just put into places when I decided to be myself and not for others'. And I do believe that life is what we make it.
I hope to inspire everyone who are still hiding and never get the guts to get out to their hiding places. I just did just now, to put my thoughts in words for you to read. And I hope I can share to you more of this and my love life's story.
That's all and keep the love alive. π₯°
Share love and respect.
Yours isnβt an easy path to take but as long as you have the courage to fight for your love and aspirations, you will eventually be able to succeed one day. And you did!
Congrats! 7 years and counting is an incredible feat!
The tats~ nice one!
Hopefully this post will inspire others to come out of their shell too.
Yes I hope so too.. thanks π
There's so much love in this post. As your ka-uri, I'd rather die than pretend to be something I am not. As long as you're happy, it's all that matters.
Hope you guys stay strong~ the 8yr wave is coming hahaha
Glad to meet you here ka uri? See you around. Thanks! counting on for forever charr π
Wow! What a beautiful way to share your sexuality and also introducing your love here on Hive. I feel that Hive is just an open space for everyone to be themselves so no need to worry, you will definitely find a lot of people here who would resonate with your story!
Not everyone will be able to find a partner who gets you, who gets to know you, and will truly show that they value you so much... so keep fighting that love.
Thank you @indayclara. Going out is the best way for me to live a happy life. I do what I think is good for my soul π
Waaah! 7 years and counting! π
Your courage to share your story is amazing. It's not easy, especially in our field, but I hope this inspires others.
Luv those tattoo rings!
Thanks maam @cthings β€οΈ
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Yey! π Out and about... Nalagpasan na ang '7 year itch'... Congrats more years to come. π