I'm chatting to a couple on another Urbex site now and trying to be diplomatic about things. As long as there's no bigotry I'm OK with them.
The content on those sites is ever so serious and I'm not sure about me suggesting you jump out of doors fifty foot above ground may come across too well. We will see.
I know now that I will never be able to convince any of these dudes to post here. Making money is BAD after all.
Sharing Niche Experience on Niche sites is always going to leave the experience a Niche Experience. I'm of an age and health state that I can not really participate other than virtually, I would have never known anything about it if you did not post about it. It sounds like they just want to keep it a "Good Ole Boy's-n-Girl's type network, their own private secret society.
It has been said as much. I understand the secrecy, places get burnt down if word gets around. The wrong people can get to know where they are.
I am not parley to any of the great ones as I'm not part of their community. That's OK, I'm happy with the wrecks I find.