Greetings everyone. I hope you're all doing good. There are many things that make me sad. Sadness would often come to visit me. Sometimes stay for a while and leaves a hole before leaving. There were times when it will just say hello and disappeared. Either way, I don't like this feeling.
Just the thought that I'm away from my family and I missed a lot of important occasions makes me sad.
Just watching my neighbors moving out makes me sad. Thinking I wouldn't see them again. I have neighbor here that I always smile to everytime I see her through the window. She would often wave and smile back. When I saw her downstairs and she told me they are moving out, it makes me sad. Now the unit they once occupied is still empty and dark. When ever I glanced at it especially at night and it was dark, I can't help but feel sad.
When I don't have enough money I also feel sad.😣 Thinking about the expenses and bills that I need to pay. I cannot do online shopping to lighten up my mood coz I don't have enough to pay😤.
When I think of how times flies and another year had added to our lives especially my parents makes me sad. Looking at them and thinking the un evitable things that may happen gave me sleepless night sometimes. Whenever I remember my grandmother that passed away long time ago makes me sad. I was in my 20's that time when it happened. I remember when I went home for my off day. My grandmother was still strong and active. Her house is just a walking distance to us and she was a normal sight to be seen at home. That day she ask me for money to buy some food stuff. She was living with my uncle(my father's older brother). I was short with cash that time and I told her that I will just buy her food stuff myself and give it to her when I go home next time. She nodded. During that time I don't go home too often(maybe twice a month) that I forgot about it. The next thing I knew is she was gone. It was so sudden. A heart attack. When she was brought to a hospital she didn't make it. That's when I remember the things she was asking me before. I regret not giving It to her and make her happy. It hunts me for so long after her passing. Even until now, though not same as before, It still hunts me in my dreams that I would wake up in tears. That's why nowadays we try to do everything that would make our parents happy. Especially on their birthdays. I don't want to live in regrets anymore😑. If they ask me to, there's nothing I won't do just to make them happy. Life is so unpredictable and nothing is permanent.
That's all for today.
See you around and wherever you are may happiness find you♥️.This is my first time to participate in memoir monday prompt. This is also my participation in @ericvancewalton prompt contest.
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You are really thinking a lot ha, just like me. I understand though, these thoughts can often visit us when we are not busy, it's just a sudden visit but it'll really wreck havoc on the minds. That's why I hate it when I'm not holding my phone. This is the only thing that can make me forget about everything. Still, anjan pa rin yong pampagulong thought, oh thought, my gosh.
Anyways, that's a really sad memory about your granny. But you know, you should start thinking about your happy memories with her now. I think she'll be happier there if you do that. Just no regrets.
Kaya nga e, minsan ok Rin pag maraming trabaho Kasi wla Ka Ng time para mg isip Ng Kung ano ano. Matulog na Lang SA Gabi. 😑😬
It is okay to feel sad at times but we should not let it occupy our whole being and steal our joy to the point that we forget to appreciate the now and be grateful. Cheer up sis, hehe.
Thank you sis♥️, minsan talaga Hindi maiwasan. Bigla na Lang dumadalaw😁😑.
Perhaps a reminder to always make the best of each moment, so don't make the same mistake and spoil this very moment, appreciate the moment and the people in your life. My Grandma told me on my wedding night that I must never go to sleep if hubby and I had an argument without making up and saying goodnight. I never forgot that!You must not blame yourself @asiaymalay, life is like that, and I'm sure your Grandma understood that you were busy finding your way in this life.
Thank you♥️. It's just sometimes that I take for granted people around me that when they leave I would feel sorry and wish to turn back time.
I feel that you always make the best for people you treasure and your heart is always full of love.
The things that makes us sad. Oh boy, wait I'm a man and there is actually a lot that makes me sad. Not having money or enough can really stop in our tracks. Its necessary to live and is needed often to do things. The sad past defintely creeps up on us unexpected at times especially on special days or events. I totally get missing family I live a bit from most of mine. The important thing is to not let sadness bottle up or do nothing about it.
We must overcome our sadness and shouldn't let it stay in our heart.
I'm waiting for yours😛. I'll see what makes you sad 😌.
Ah I'm taking a pass on this one. It's because I have written another article I'm finishing up no time. Yup, I'm going with that, haha.
Sometimes it is inevitable to feel that we should have done something with those of our loved ones who are no longer with us but that will not bring them back, it is better to hold on to the good memories.
Hugs!
Thank you♥️. I feel that I should have done better and spent more time with them, but we cannot turn back time😑.
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Its really sad when people close to us keep moving. Actually dear friend something small is enough to make us sad.
Yes dear. It's just that some sadness is so extensive sometimes. Thank you♥️.
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This reminds me of all the people who go to a funeral. They might not have seen the deceased person in years, yet they go to pay their respects. The person is dead, it is a bit late!
Joking aside, I sympathise with you. We just have to do it now, that way there are no regrets.
Great to see you joining in Asia and good luck.
I don't know why I only realized that I could have done better when they are gone and wish to turn back time😖😤.
Don't worry Asia it is normal and happens to most of us. Why we should always leave on a good note as one day there won't be a tomorrow.
Thinking about this makes me sad also, thinking I would be gone someday😖😤.
Me too, so let's think happy thoughts na
We think about pancit😌😁
oo sarap pancit!
I understand your remorse. When people die, we can no longer do anything for them. Even bringing them flowers is not enough. The idea is, now that you lived that experience, to show your affection to your parents, the ones you love, now that they are still alive. Greetings
Thank you♥️. I always got this feeling of not doing my best when they were still alive(My grandparents).
Hehehe, salamat😛♥️.