It's generally well accepted that as you get older, your mobility decreases. That's normal, right? Well, it is if you don't do anything about it. That saying, "use it or lose it" came into use for a reason.
As you age, things in your body do indeed slow down. Your muscle mass decreases, injuries take longer to repair and your muscles, tendons, ligaments and bones become less pliable. Years of bad habits catch up with you and can start to cause pain and deterioration. But this doesn't mean you have to just roll over and accept it as fate. While it may take longer, your body can still repair itself and bad habits can still be undone. Mobility can be increased back to what it was and maybe even improved upon.
Bad Habits Come Back to Bite
In my early 40s I started getting pain in my right upper arm when I reached my arm out or up to get things. The pain would shoot down the outer muscle from my shoulder. It didn't affect most of my day to day activities, just times when I had to reach under things in the cramped chicken coop or get things off high shelves. I found that if I moved it very slowly into those positions I didn't experience the pain, so I decided to make sure I continued using my full range, just slowly in the ranges which caused pain. This seemed to do the trick and the problem went after a few months.
Unfortunately it came back again, this time in my left arm. I took the same approach, but it gradually got worse instead of improving. It got to a point where I couldn't lift my arm up above my head fully and it wasn't just painful to try to do so, it physically wouldn't move any further. One day a woman at the supermarket asked if I could get something down for her that was on a higher shelf, because her shoulders wouldn't allow her to reach up and as I reached up with my right arm I realised I that was halfway to having to ask the same of others myself, because I couldn't have gotten it with my left hand either.
Trying to shave my left armpit was becoming a farce. I was at the point of wondering if this was deterioration that comes with age and I'd just have to accept that this was going to become a part of my life. Luckily, I've read too many anecdotes that have said otherwise and decided that I wouldn't give up so easily. It meant having to accept some home truths if rather have ignored, but isn't that always the way when it comes to self-improvement and self-healing?
Home truth number one was that my posture had never been great. Years of slouching and looking down to avoid eye contact had done me no good. The other thing I had to face was that in order to get my mobility back into that shoulder, I would likely have to work through some pain.
I'm grateful that it's now so easy to find information and guidance online for just about anything, so after finding some ways I could work on my posture I started to do so. I also started gentle yoga stretching in 'child's pose' to slowly push my arm towards a position where I could raise it above my head again. It was a gentle stretch, just to the point where it was hurting a little and pushing into that resistance I was encountering, then I would relax into that position for a while.
I wasn't entirely convinced it would work, but improving my posture was only going to be a good thing, so I figured I may as well commit to a long haul plan. I was actually pleasantly surprised when I started to see improvement much faster than I'd expected.
Exercise as you Age
This was back in 2020 and my daughter was looking at retiring from gymnastics, so we'd decided to try out climbing. I recall being a bit worried that I still wouldn't be able to fully use my arm, but I was going to give it a go anyway and use it as part of my recovery process. It was July by the time we could start, after covid lockdowns had lifted and it turned out that my arm and shoulder was completely healed and gave me no issues whatsoever. I have now been climbing for 3.5 years and it's made me realise how much I was letting myself go mobility wise. Not only have I regained my previous mobility, I'm actuality stronger now than I've ever been.
It's been accepted for a long time now that exercise and keeping active as you age is a good thing to keep you mobile, so walking, swimming and gentle exercise classes have been encouraged for the elderly. However, recently studies have been finding that strength training is incredibly beneficial as you age as well. We couldn't have imagined encouraging elderly people to lift heavy weights at one point, because surely that would cause them injury. Yet it's been shown to improve bone density. Improved strength also means better balance, potentially reducing the risk of falls. Osteoporosis is particularly high in women as they approach and enter menopause, so strength training is very much being encouraged for them as we try to move away from the idea that weight lifting is just a man thing.
Find What You Enjoy
I'll be honest, I've never seen the appeal of exercise for exercise sake and most certainly would never have joined a traditional gym. I don't think I'm alone in this, because I know there are plenty of people who have gym memberships they never use. They get them because they want to get fitter, but the reality is that the process is not that enjoyable for most of us. I know that the only way I'm going to exercise is by doing something with a useful purpose (like walking to a destination) or by doing something I enjoy. Body builder, Sam Sulek, said that if you enjoy the process you'll make much more progress than just working towards goals. Someone who enjoys walking is going to walk more than someone who is just walking to a destination. This rang true for me when I realised that I climbed because I enjoyed it, not because I was wanting to get fit, yet the side affect of my climbing was that I had gotten fitter, stronger and my mobility had improved. I will now even make time to do regular stretches and exercises in a way I don't enjoy, in order to be able to get a climbing skill I want to be able to do. My motivation comes from reminding myself that I want to be able to make that move on the wall. I know that getting flexible and getting stronger will take me much longer than it would someone half my age, but I also know that if I'm persistent I will still improve. I recently told a 25 year old, who felt like he was making no progress, that if I can improve my hamstring flexibility then he most certainly can.
For any who want some inspiration, I hope I can give some with my climbing shared on Instagram.
It's over for me. You go on ahead, I'll hold them off as long as I can.
I can't let you do that. No man left behind!
🌄 Good morning (here), @minismallholding! ☕
Very good post, on what many (raising my hand here) struggle with wanting to accept.
Coming up on the 1st anniversary of my own "major medical event," I can attest firsthand to what was stressed over and over in the resulting therapy afterwards. Paraphrasing:
So ... 🫡 As you say ... The wisdom of the old, but very simple phrase - "use it or lose it" ...
... we (my beloved and I) had to get over this life-long resistance ourselves, as it is sad how few good alternatives there are, in our "advanced" (🤷♂️) lifestyle. We are now consistently going to our local community center, where they are equipped well enough for our purposes.
Our objective is very simple (at least, in our minds). We have no desire to live beyond our preordained "number of days." We would, however, like to be as uhhh ... "serviceable" ... during our remaining time as we can manage.
Proper exercise is a foundational part (cornerstone?) of making that possible.
Great to see you taking these steps and being able to vouch for how beneficial they have been to you. I hope others will read this post and derive some inspiration to get over whatever their inertia is keeping them from experiencing it for themselves. 👍
This exactly. I would rather be active until my end than barely able to do anything for myself as years slowly tick by, especially if I'm in chronic pain. I saw my grandmother pretty much give up on life when she felt she'd lost her independence.
I also have to admit that having not really done anything for myself for years while I raised my girls (and even beside that if I'm honest), I now love that I can spend this time on myself and with my youngest daughter to boot. If I'd just given in to letting myself go/grow old, then I wouldn't be enjoying this and may have gotten resentful that I missed out on it.
The community centre sounds like a good place. It's always more fun to do these things in company than alone, as well. Here's to us all enjoying active lives to the end.
Yes, @minismallholding, ...
... and Amen! Certainly the part over which we have any influence ...
I hope you and yours have enjoyed a nice day, on your side of the planet! 😉👋
Well we just got back from another climbing session, so that made it a nice day. 😁
That’s awesome! Really glad to hear that you also climb. My son and I got into it last year, I had done it a few times with my wife years ago but forgot about it for a while. We are actually going climbing today :D it’s such amazing exercise and it’s really challenging too which is great!!
I think that we definitely need to make sure that we challenge our bodies in the right way and keep the muscles strong in the ways that we can. If we have pain, we figure out how to determine the root cause, often times it’s poor body mechanics and posture related!
Glad that you’ve worked on and improved your body mechanics, looking downwards is a really challenging one on our bodies!
In my early twenties, before my first pregnancy, my husband and I used to climb most Saturdays for about a year. It started out with lead rope climbing, but it was bouldering that we enjoyed more. We tried to take it up again after we moved to Australia in 2008, but at the time Adelaide didn't have a bouldering gym, just a rather small lead climbing one, which we weren't keen on. The bouldering gym we go to now opened 2019, I think...maybe 2018.
I'm so glad your son likes it and you can climb together. I'm really stoked my youngest like it as much as me. My eldest prefers to keep long nails. 😆
It's amazing how climbing helps you find muscles you never knew you had. I discovered quite a few in the first year and it was never in a comfortable way. 😅
Lo que dices es muy cierto sino llevamos buenos hábitos desde el principio se nota al llegar a cierta edad incluso a los 40 años como dices que aún es una edad media joven. Tengo 37 años y desde que soy mamá he descuidado el hábito de hacer ejercicio o buenos estiramientos diarios y si pasa factura es como que nos falta aceite en las articulaciones. Lo único es que camino mucho durante el día es mi medio de transporte para hacer diligencias y camino mucho. Esto favorece mi circulación. Pero necesito incorporar estiramientos, el peso de mi hijo me afecta, mi cadera y cuello se siente adoloridos de vez en cuando.Llego la hora de si o si hacer ejercicios. Muchas gracias por motivarme al leer esto.
It's not easy to fit that time in when you have children. Sometimes mums will get their children joining them for it when they get older, in order to be able to do it themselves and to develop good habits in their children.
I hope you do find time to do this for yourself.
Well that's always inspiring to see.
I met a gal who began to run in her early fifties and by 55 was running marathons. This after a life-time (almost) of smoking and alcoholism. Yep. She was fitter at the age of 55 than she'd ever been before.
We've got this! :D
p.s. Super cool sport!
It's funny how that ends up working. A friend of mine, now in her late 40s, also started running a few years ago and now does half marathons. I'm terrible at cardio, so I find it very impressive.
It's pretty amazing how resilient the human body is.
Have you seen this?
And I hear you! I've never been a natural runner either! It took me a year or so to get into it and I still only did a 5 or 6km walk, run. It just feels to heavy on my body...
I'm sure climbing is cardio, you know... There are different kinds. Ashtanga (my personal go to for everything) includes pretty intense cardio. But you don't even leave the yoga mat!
I haven't seen it.
Heavy is a good description. That's how running feels to me as well.
You're right, there is cardio in it. It's not as aerobic as some sports and exercises, though. Unless you are into the dynamic movement side of it, which starts to get more like parkour. 😆 Not my strong suit either, but I'm working on it.
Hey. Small steps. Or upward hauls as it were :)
A friend of mine got into rock climbing BTW. She got so darned for over time 👀
Ripped!
I'd give it a go but not keen on heights. My hands ache if I even look down from a balcony. Actual physical ache.
Respect. It's a rad sport!
I'm not great with heights, either. I'm even worse with enclosed spaces,though. A climber friend invited me potholing once. 😱
Now I'm gonna have to Brave "potholing" and it's cleaning day and time.
Oh boy...
Oh gods no! Caves and crawling through tiny space. Um... just no! 😆
So true! Inspiring read :<) but I also believe that all the brainwashing that is being told and shown around old people getting more and more unhealthy and dying from diseases while being on meds for decades doesn't help much either ;<)
I am 42 and am aiming to become fitter by the year and hopefully decade.
I also went bouldering indoors ( for the very first time ), at the start of this year and although I almost canceled ( due to being feverish and with a cough ) I decided to go for it anyway, was positively surprised by my skills and flexibility and felt great afterwards. It's not just physically rewarding also for the mind.
That's great that you did some climbing too this year! I absolutely love it. Great hobby replacement for me vs skateboarding lol
Awesome indeed but it was in The Netherlands. There's no indoor climbing in the area, here in Portugal and until I reach pro level, I won't try it on actual rocks ;<)
Could you traverse close to the ground? Put down plenty of mats too.
I'm glad you went anyway. The first time I went I had a migraine, but there was no way I was missing out after looking forward to it for so long.
I agree with the mental side too. When I climb I can switch off from the stresses outside and just focus on what I'm doing. At least most of the time I can. Sometimes anxiety carries over to the wall with me.
I was literally just thinking about how our grandparent's generation was living to their 80s and up yet our parent's generation seem to be dying younger. It was going through my mind what had changed and high levels of medication was one of my thoughts. Also vaccination wasn't at the same levels in our grandparent's generation.
Amen. 100% behind this. I don't see the point of exercising for its own sake, either. Find something you enjoy, because time is very limited on this planet, so why waste even 20 minutes a day doing some mindless cardio you hate?
Good on you :) I was just thinking, browsing my feed, that the moment you stop moving is when you die, and came across your post. Weird. And lovely. Good luck to you :)
Isn't it funny how our thoughts often resonate with things we then end up reading or conversations which suddenly come up on what we were thinking about. I just had the same thing happen with @vincentnijman's comment above.
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It's very difficult coping with life as we age, but there are things we can do to make it a lot easier, and you've listed them in your article, like trying to correct bad habits and regular exercises. Thanks for sharing these beneficial pieces of info. Have a nice day.
Yet it can get even harder if we do nothing, even though it feels hard at the time to do something.
Exercise is really good for us and I even learnt that there are different types of exercises for different ages
Thanks for making this particular post
I don't think exercises should be different for different ages, so much as tailored for different abilities and toned down where needed.
Beautiful publication, you look very strong and toned, I congratulate you, thank you for sharing your anecdote and inspiring experience. @minismallholding 😊🥰
Thank you. I hope it does inspire others.
interesting article, it's true that we may be old but we have to remain who we are to stay healthy...
You looks awesome..A Strong body has a strong mind .keep it up.
good morning, good post, I congratulate you