I believe it's crucial to reserve that special spot in bed for someone who truly deserves it. People get into relationships for all kinds of reasons. Some individuals enter relationships for emotional or physical connection, while others do so for convenience, fear, insecurity, loneliness, or codependency, among other reasons. Regardless of the reasons, my advice, having navigated various relationship landscapes, is to establish boundaries and get to know a person before proceeding to the next stage. And most importantly, find yourself. Get to know yourself - your values, strengths, and flaws - before getting involved with anyone, because once you're in that relationship, it's pretty hard to juggle caring for someone while trying to care for ourselves in all aspects—spiritually, physically, emotionally, and mentally.
It took me a long time to learn - and I learned a very hard way - that to truly be able to love someone, you first have to love yourself, recognise who you are, your strengths and flaws. Otherwise, someone else is going to do that define you for you, and it often isn't pretty and eventually messes one up. I appreciate your advise, and I consider it a good reminder of a lesson.
I've been there and done that 😅. It's a difficult lesson to learn, especially since life tends to teach it in the hardest ways. When you really love yourself and get to know who you are, it sets the stage for better and more satisfying relationships. I'm really happy to hear that my advice resonated with you, and I truly appreciate your thoughtful response. It's a little nudge for us to keep celebrating our strengths and flaws as part of this lovely, ongoing journey of self-love.💕
I guess we get a piece of life at some point. I appreciate the wisdom you shared with me. Happy New year!
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