Some of the things are so recognizable 😂
My wife likes talking and she can't stand it when it is silent for too long and I sometimes like silence. This sometimes becomes an 'issue' during long rides 😀
I think everyone needs his/her time alone. Instead of surfing I'm cycling. Perfect to clear your mind without having to talk. And my wife has her own hobbies too.
As you are in a longer relationship you need to 'accept' the small annoying things. Just count to 10 and be happy with the things that you do like about him/her.
Be thankful you still have them around...
I love him so much, don't get me wrong. You know what I do? I reach for his hand in the car and tell him I love him when I get irritated. It's a great diffuser and reminds me that ultimately I do appreciate having him around. It's my annoyances, not his quirks. I definitely breath and don't react - much, haha!
Gawd, I think of Mum missing Dad so much now - she would give anything to have him around playing his music 'too' loud or not making the bed.