Hiii, @macchiata! I enjoyed reading you.
This year I made a resolution to take better care of me. Take care of my skin and take care of my appearance, so I understand you when you talk about connecting with your femininity.
Our routines are very similar. I just prefer to use gel because of my oily skin, but I also use niacinamide, and at least once a week I exfoliate my skin.
I've found that sunscreen helps a lot when it comes to makeup because it leaves my skin looking nice, so I haven't used foundation lately either. Blush, mascara, pressed powder and lipstick. And I'm ready and pretty. Ready to go.