I'll even bite, a second time. This is a two-parter: What turns you on? And what turns you off?
Remember, this is one of those classic questions that can range from spirituality, to life, to sex, to romance, to activities and beyond... Don't overthink it! Just first thing that comes to mind for each...
Turns me on: Music
Turns me off: Pretension
Yes, def. on the music!
Yeah, pretension. Ack! I get that; I was raised with my mother's particular brand of that....
I recall your post. Hate it. Not your post, lol - pretension.