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RE: Going "Off the Radar"

Has anyone tried something like this?

Yeah, all the time

I call it falling off the map, and it's critical for my mental health

It has upset people in the past when I don't get back to them right away

It allows my introverted personality to not get overwhelmed, so I don't feel bad about it

Most people don't understand what that means

And when you try to explain it to someone: "so, being around people drains my energy; I can't do it for too long" they generally don't want to listen

Or they take it personally, like I'm telling them: "you drain me"

Which is usually not the case

¯\_ (ツ)_/¯

I'm just trying to get by, like everyone else

We all have things that work for us which don't for others

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omg yes!
That's exactly it!

For those who get attacked I used to be bothered and tried to over-explain it and still they got offended, but that was good, I came to realize how those who truly care, respect my time

And for those I got a new approach "just like your phone I have a battery, but a "social battery". if your phone dies, you recharge it, that's the same for me"

It's good to know I'm not the only one like this :D :D

And for those I got a new approach "just like your phone I have a battery, but a "social battery". if your phone dies, you recharge it, that's the same for me"

That's a really good way to put it!