Exactly...Long game.
I understand what you mean...I get a buzz when I get a comment, it makes me happy. Sure I like votes too, but I know they will come if the relationship is there.
You're on the right track.
Engage, post well, don't be spammy with comments or posts, add passion, personality and effort...It's a simple formula.
this is the way as mando would say
It's righteous.