The question I keep asking is that why would you pretending being a person you are not..
What can one achieve from it, open up and be who you are...let the people that will hate you hate you.. People that will beat you beat you..no matter what you will still see some the will love you the way you are without pretending to be someone else
I'm always surprise when some men and women will be pretending as if their are something but once their get what their actually want you then see the really them..
Just the way my grand father normally say that respect is no a character, and that is just the truth the way some people will repect and honored you... You will never believe their can do something until you started seeing it with your own eye..
That is life all over people live a life of pretend to stay..
Yeah that is the truth one must learn how to be himself most of the time will depend on people that doesn't have the capacity to advise us when we want to do something it is a good be necessary for us to be who we are
Want you always believe is that we have a potential we have something to deliver that is something great in or switch some people do not have as they normally said that all women being are not the same there must be something in you that somebody do not have you don't need to look down at yourself you are great
Another point is that some people doesn't believe in their self some people doesn't believe they can do something on their own associate which is very bad there should be a situation whereby we should learn how to be independent you don't need to depend on people all the time because the people were even depending on who doesn't know the last and how strong they are
We should always learn another stand that we are all special people that everything will lose our hands-on will surely come to pass we don't need to deceive yourself anything we know that we cannot do well as we get advice from others and also work with our mind
Most of the things that make people not to be their self is that they doesn't believe in the safe if you find it difficult to believe in who you are is will be very hard for you to be yourself
Another thing is that some people love to copy people if you are a kind of person that cannot hold on your own and you like copying people are there to be very hard for you to be yourself as I said that you are a special person you don't need to copy people before you leave or do something
However always let people know what you can do always let people know your stand some of the time because you refuse to be yourself people will not said it is you that I've done this or that but if you hold your stuff people will know you on what you hold yourself on which is very great
You also need to read book that will give you more confidence most of the time if we lack confidence it can affect us allowed to be ourselves you read different books that can give you more confidence develop your mind and make you to be strong