"you never get a break for doing things that make you LESS dependent on the system."
Providing for yourself is only okay if it benefits them. When you end up jobless and apply for centrelink they'll love it if you've got enough stashed away that they don't have to shell out until you're completely broke. No rewards for looking after yourself.
I was wondering how your father was going. Glad to hear he's in remission and hoping he stays that way. Illness is bad enough without having the concern of losing your home to get well.
Swear away, swear away... it can be therapeutic.