Sorry if that came across badly, I suspected you meant it that way. I’m Just dealing with a couple of people who have taken it the narcissistic way. So easy to misinterpret what people are trying to say about self love; either that, or they take what they want to from it and use things they've read too justify their behaviour.
All love to you on your healing journey. ❤
None offense taken, and I've known a few cases like the ones you describe as well 😵