Hi,
Thank you for your kind words, it means a lot.
There have been some very good things in my life too, only this week I have helped my Daughter secure a new job and a promotion to boot.
It is these small positives that I try and celebrate.
As for my Parent with Alzheimer's, I have secured NHS CHC funding where all my Parent's costs are paid by the NHS including Care Home fees.
There are numerous websites offering advice on the subject and Solicitors offering their services. I managed it without the Solicitors after attending an Appeal meeting with three nurses, which lasted 3.5 hours. It was a right ol' grilling.
This victory made me feel as though I had defended my Parent and fought for them, winning against the odds.
I wish you well LivingUKTaiwan :)