Humans get used to following a leader, when this is not necessary. No one can decide for you and no one else, you are the owner of your life and your decisions. Now this motivational ''guru'' thing is what I call a black and negative stain on true fulfillment. We have to be very careful with these things, we look for the answers but sometimes we make the mistake of looking for them where there are none.
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