The first time I came across the word "Gaslighting", I knew it wasn´t an easy problem on the gaslighter but would definitely hurt more to the one being gaslighted and if one isn´t careful, the one being gaslighted would begin to question his or her existence thinking they are the one with the problem.
You have really gone through a lot with your sisters, but I think it can´t hurt you more than when you were still very young because you won´t have any other option then. Now you have grown up and decide to do things on your own and not to interfere in their matter anymore unless they need you to say something.
Meditation has in one way helped you and it is helping you to clarify things and focus on yourself more than thinking about the situation always. Thank you for sharing this as I also have learned something from your experience.
Yes, that's the horror and deepest danger of gaslighting, it confuses everyone involved. It's really hard for people who find themselves on the receiving end of the issue, to find peace, reclaim their space and not develop grudges against the perpetrators.
My love for my sisters and the firm knowledge that they too respond to their own resentment and doubts, has allowed me to take on these things more effective, and I'm extremely grateful for that. Also, very grateful for your comment and your insights! Glad you learned something from my experience!!