What is Anger really? A good or bad emotion? I think it can be both depending how one reacts to anger or controls it.
Oh boy!...in response to my dear friend @lizelle question in #95 edition Ladies of Hive Contest.
We all have a different boiling point, some of us are easily angered, others are really cool-tempered.
I'm not very easily angered, it takes quite a lot of antagonism from the other person towards me, for me to lose my rag.
I'd rather try and keep the peace by looking for a solution to what ever the argument is about, or take a deep breath and walk away before the situation becomes toxic.
However!... there is one thing that irks me the most, and that is, when I'm falsely accused of something I did not do. It turns me into a "She Devil"
I expect the person to have their facts straight before jumping to conclusions.
It's like putting a knife through my heart...I feel betrayed and hurt.
I mean...if they confess to be my friend...then they should know my integrity...not so?
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I'm not a dishonest person and never will be, I was brought up to respect and honor other peoples beliefs, properties and cultures.
If they don't agree with mine....well!...that's their problem...definitely not mine.
If they apologize?...I would forgive them...but, I would never forget. They would have to move mountains to break down that barrier of "miss trust" before allowing them back into my "realm of friendship" so to speak.
I don't bare any grudges, it's true, life is to short to deal with other peoples inferiorities...if one cannot help them...easy...exclude them from one's life before they sap one's energy.
I'm truly a loving and caring person....Omg...I try to be, most of the time Lol!
After a little spurt of unpleasantness or tantrum disrupting my daily life, I find solace in cooking and baking.
Having some what of a sweet and savory tooth at the same time.... my favorite snacks are orange cake and pancakes with out a doubt, as a matter of fact I love all food...I mean, it's the foundation of happiness Lol!
I love the aroma and the awesome citrus flavor of orange cake...Yummy... my favorite bake.
Pancakes filled with stewed apples and cinnamon, oh yes...comfort food for sure.
My Hubby Peter, a gentle soul and love of my life, knows just how to pacify me.
Coffee and Doughnuts...happy food indeed, enough to blow away the worries and wows.
I'm trying to keep away from these little temptations, oh dear!...it's so hard, all that sugar, not healthy at all.
I'll let you into a little secret...on Monday I'm starting my health diet...Omg...not to sure what I'll do on Tuesday though Lol!...I'm going to give it my best shot anyway.
So!... this weekend I'm eating date cookies and koeksisters (a traditional Afrikaner confectionery) made of fried dough infused in syrup, absolutely delicious, not good for the hips at all, any way, one cannot eat to many as they're very sweet and extremely rich.
In ending my #95 edition Ladies of of Hive Contest, I would love to invite @carolinacardoza to join the awesome Ladies of Hive Community.
Thank you for giving me this opportunity to express my anger with you Lol! I hope you enjoyed it as much as I have sharing it with you.
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Happy snacking
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Feeling angry is okay, but we have to control ourselves to change the anger into a calming situation. Take a breath, and maybe just run away from people until we feel calm down is the best thing to do. :)
Absolutely right @anggreklestari, we have to control ourselves when angry.
Thank you for stopping by.
Have a great weekend then :)
I know the feeling, being falsely accused would get my temperature up!
Getting stuck in the kitchen has a way of calming me, with the help of much slamming and slapping in the process. All those sweet treats are simply irresistible but so bad for the waistline, not so! I'm also starting a diet on Monday...and then will start a new one the following Monday...and so on... :):)
Apple pancake I will not resist though! Glad you responded to this contest my friend, loved your fun blog!
Thank you @lizelle , I wasn't sure if I had time to finish it, did it at the spur of the moment Lol! Ladies of Hive is one if my favourite communities.
I have to do something and cut out the sugar, not good for one at all.
Thanks for inviting me to take part in the contest, it was fun. Have a great day my friend.
Being accused of something we didn't know is something that can't be ignored especially if someone who does that is a person we trust the most. It's great that you easily forgive, guess that's best to do :)
And your snacks, yum! I wished we were neighbors and perhaps share those food with you, lol!
Thank you lots for sharing and I wish you the best on your diet journey. I believe you can do it even on Tuesday and everyday :)
Cheers !LADY
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Thank you so much @ifarmgirl,forgiveness is the best, if we don't forgive, it will just rot inside of us and make us sick.
I have to cut out the sugar and carbs, my nutritionist said I need to do a plant based diet, so I'm going to give it a good shot. We only have one life and one body, must take care of it.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read my post. Have a great day.
That's absolutely true, we always feel heavy inside unless we forgive. Not good to get sick out of resentment and anger or bitterness.
Plant based diet is good and you can do it :)
Thank you too ArtyWink, enjoy your day and weekend.