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Hello everybody, first of all I want to take this space to wish you all a happy new year, and that this 2024 is a year of success, growth and prosperity to all of you, I thank you greatly for sharing your experiences, reflections and points of view because we all get to enrich ourselves spiritually and and mentally learning a bit more every day
With this first week of the year came a new community contest and as always, Asides from answering in my mind I decided to share with you the reflection that came to me after the second question.
2️⃣ What would you do differently or start doing for yourself next year?
During the last days of 2023 I had moments of introspection, as it happens to many of us, and in between so much observation I came to my purpose for the new year, my resolution if you will.
A big part of my life has revolted around suppositions and what-ifs, comparing myself to others, feeling any of my efforts have been worthy of something. I observe others and I wonder why things seem to be easier for them... And that's where the problem is: not all of us have the same privileges, or come from the same background. So we end up hurting ourselves more and more without acknowledging the fact that we are putting effort. That it is okay to start late, or going back on our steps to get to another route.
It is okay to start again, to fail, everything is okay because it is part of the experience of being alive. What does matter is to keep going, to keep trying. That is why my new year resolution is: to stop comparing myself to others and just focus on MY process, to be more present on MY own life.
I am doing great, I'm doing a great job and my progress is huge, so it's not worthy to put other people as an example if the only one that has experience being me is... Myself.
Thank you very much for reading me once again, I send you all a big hug and my best wishes ❤️
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Hola a todas, primero que nada quiero tomar este espacio para desearles a todas un feliz año nuevo, y que este 2024 sea un año de éxitos, crecimiento y mucha prosperidad para todas ustedes, les agradezco enormemente por compartir sus experiencias, reflexiones y puntos de vista ya que entre todas nos enriquecemos espiritual y mentalmente aprendiendo cada día más.
Con esta primera semana del año llegó un nuevo reto para la comunidad y como siempre, además de responder mentalmente decidí compartir con ustedes la reflexión que me ha dejado la segunda de las preguntas semanales.
2️⃣ ¿Qué harías diferente o estarías comenzando a hacer por ti este nuevo año?
Durante los últimos días del año 2023 tuve momentos de instrospeccion, como a muchas personas les sucede, y entre tanta observación llegué a mi propósito de año nuevo, mi resolución como dicen.
Gran parte de mi vida ha girado en torno a suposiciones, a compararme, a sentir que mis esfuerzos no valen. Observo a las demás personas y me pregunto por qué para ellas las cosas parecen tan sencillas... Y allí radica el detalle: no todas las personas tenemos los mismos privilegios o venimos de un mismo origen. Así que lo único que hacemos es lastimarnos más son tomar en cuenta que si nos estamos esforzando. Que está bien comenzar tarde, o retroceder para abordar otro tren.
Está bien volver a empezar, fallar, todo está bien pues es parte de la experiencia de vivir. Lo que importa es seguir adelante, seguir intentando. Es por eso que mi resolución para el año nuevo es: dejar de compararme con otras personas y enfocarme en MI proceso, estar más presente en MI propia vida.
Estoy haciéndolo bien, estoy haciendo un buen trabajo y mi progreso es enorme, así que no vale la pena ponerme a terceros como ejemplo si la única persona que tiene experiencia siendo yo... soy yo misma.
Muchas gracias por leerme una vez más, les envío un enorme abrazo y los mejores deseos ❤️
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Así es danigada18, lo importante es superarnos a nosotros mismos, no a los demás, cada quien tiene su espacio y su tiempo, no podemos compararnos.
Saludos, que tengas un lindo día.
Exacto, no hay peor cosa que inventar competencias imaginarias que solo nos causan sinsabores
I know that feeling of comparing others, I have been in that shoes and all I can say is that it is draining and depressing.
We all just want to be living our best life at some point and when that is not happening like it is with people and how we expected it, we begin to have questions and doubt our effort putting ourselves under a lot of pressure.
It took me a while to snap out of that and I am glad you saw the need to let go of that aspect of your life as it isn't a healthy one.
I hope and pray that this year brings you the best of life and that your wish for life comes to reality.
Thank you very much for your good wishes. Totally, even now I still have moments I can't help but think I'm way behind, but it takes time to get rid of bad habits
@danigada18, You have made a very good resolution. Comparing ourselves to others can only bring hindrances to our lives. Therefore, it is better to focus on your life without comparison. Very good; I really liked your resolution. Thank you.
Thank you for dropping by. It is certainly a terrible habit
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Awesome @danigada18 the only person you need to prove is to yourself, live by your own expectations and not on someone else's!
Totally, by comparing ourselves to others the only thing we accomplish is to feel terrible and stop even trying
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I have learned over my life thus far, that we are more happy if we can stop comparing ourselves to one another. We are all unique and beautiful in our own right. Whether it's looks, talents, or anything else, we are made the way we are supposed to be.
Have a blessed 2024 and enjoy! Take care!
Thank you ver much for your kind words, have a wonderful new year
You are very welcome! Take care!
Haha it's not just you, I can be very quick to ask the "what if" question, that changes this year for us 😁
I had to learn to stop and comparing to my own self a while back. It helped me realize how much I have progressed because of boy, that was depressing 😂
Happy New Year! Your reflection resonates deeply. Embracing your unique journey is a powerful resolution. Comparisons can be tough, but focusing on personal progress is key. Your honesty is inspiring, reminding us that it's okay to start anew. Wishing you continued growth and self-discovery in 2024.
Thank you dear friend, it surely takes a while to stop being so hard on ourselves and embrace the process
happy new year