Hi everyone ☺️🌺
You know when random people hurt you, like a stranger or someone not so close, it hurts. But its the normal hurt. You get over it in the minimum time possible.
But you know what takes a lifetime to get over? When someone you never expected from hurts you in unimaginable ways. When they disrespect you, bring you to your knees, when they make you cry every single night and specially when you cry infront of Allah because of them.
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Thats the worst kind of hurt and it takes years and years to get over. Because its not just the hurt but the humiliation that comes with it. The self hate for letting someone hurt you this bad that the wound is too deep to get over with. Although its not your fault but you hate yourself as much as you hate the one who did it. Because you kinda think its you who let them treat you like this. I hope no one of you goes through that and whoever already has, may Allah help you. Cry infront of Him as much you want, as much as it needs to move on from the hurt.💛
Hello @diabatool. Oh, I'm so sorry this happened to you. I understand how you feel. This happened to me once in my youth. To this day, I have forgiven and moved on, but I'll never forget. The key to moving on is to forgive. That way, the person no longer has power over your feelings, your thoughts, your actions, and your attitude toward others.
To forgive takes lots of prayer. So you must cry in from of Him whatever amount it takes to heal. No one else can do it for you.
Thanks for sharing, and take care. Have a good weekend.
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