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RE: On Tribes & Loneliness

in Ladies of Hive2 years ago

Nice post river, thought provoking. Moving to our farm after a lifetime of middle class suburban living was a challenge for me. I missed being around the corner from my kids and grands. I love my hubby and he is great company but I miss my gal pals, having coffee together once the kids got on the school bus
I have adapted slowly and have developed friendships with the locals. Just like you I can go to the general store and chat for an hour with Julie, the owner.

Being alone doesn’t translate into being lonely. I hope Jamie finds a connection, feeling lonely sucks

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Oh yeah you get it. I definitely try to tell Jamie that being alone isn't loneliness but I think he just needs people around him to recharge just like I need solitude. It must have been hard to move, but yeah, you guys are like us, great company for each other and very much in love. It helps, no? God forbid we lose each other.