I can understand that the loss of close members of the Family often puts a pall over the family Christmas celebrations.
In my experience, the sudden loss of my father 50 days before Christmas showed how he was an important part of the Family's Christmas. Yet my brother and I came to make a decision to continue our Christmas in different way and at the same time acknowledging his vital role as our Father. It was tough times but this forced me to 'grow up.'
Thanks for posting @majoboa18 and Welcome to #ladiesofhive 🤗