Some scattered thoughts & being a girl which triggered me .....

in Ladies of Hive4 months ago (edited)

I think there are few words as insulting as "girls can't be so stubborn". All species have males and females. But why only people think about these ?

Watching Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, Beauty and the Beast as a child, the worst misconception that is created in the mind of a small child is that -

a prince will suddenly come from somewhere and remove all the problems, sorrows and problems of life, life is as beautiful as a fairy tale. will be done
– it.

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No girl would want to believe this,but the truth is that no matter how smart you get,how successful you get.A man would never like a girl more successful or brilliant than him. Rare cases can work. But if you are growing too rapidly in a professional career there is a huge chance that your relationship doesn't run for a long time . I have seen it ! Sometimes I have seen marriages work because the woman failed & this is such a strange thing that I have seen in my life.

I have thought about it a lot. Our society may have thought, "Men will have stubbornness. Women will not cut seven rides. If stubbornness is a woman's thing, then it has become equal! Can this be accepted?"
I agree that nothing is too good. No stubbornness, no anger, nothing else. That applies to everyone. But why will the word 'girls' come here? I don't get this .

The thing is that is in real life, no prince comes & we girls are not cinderella. Later on we realize that we can't find our way in the labyrinth called earth, we just run around and find some peace.........Life could have been a fairytale!

I know many people may be triggered after hearing this but it is very important for everyone to have a financial backup. Dependency is a very bad thing for which self-esteem is lost in many cases. There is nothing more sensitive than money. If you can't keep financial matters away to keep any relationship intact, there will be regrets at the end of the day.
I have seen all values-honor-love-needs surrender to this one object.

Excessive involvement in financial transactions in any relationship or seeking financial support over and over is associated with the words "sign of overzealous thief".It is more honorable to try to fulfill your dreams on your own than to go in front of the villain to find a prince for yourself.

To earn for your own & not to settle down for anything in a term for the sake of others is a win . Be a person what makes you happy cause some other person can make you happy is a rare case. And of course rare cases can't be a definition!

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Financial independence is of immense importance. I agree to it with the core of my heart.

Islamic teachings ensure the financial stability of a woman even the one's doing no jobs. It is another factor that the followers of this religion undermine the teachings and patriarchal society derive the teachings that are only benefits to men.

Exactly. Nowadays, men learn Hadith only as much as they need or as much as it will be beneficial for them. And many of them are not concern about the context of the hadith.

For nowadays it is most important to have financial backup for everyone, I don't prefer gender discrimination specially in the matter of money.

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