Haha you must have a hidden talent for writing that you didn't realise you have! π
I find that saying no is easy in general but saying no to people I want to please, who tends to be people I love, can be so hard! π It feels like I am not making them happy when I should be. But I think I just need to practice more so both parties are more used to me saying no.
Also, thanks for responding to me! This is the beginning of more interactions in the future ππ€
I defenitely going to explore more this flow of writing! I'm quite liking it and having so much fun π I'm so glad you enjoy it!
I get you... I've been there and still am I think... But the "should be" of your sentence shows also the implicity of making other happy being an obligation. I relate to it very much and I've reflected a lot because of it. I think it's regarding to our inner child that growing up maybe you only felt loved/accepted when you behaved in an adult expected way.
If we think of this how many time we say to children "If you do this, I'll be sad/other feeling". It starts here when, unconsciously, we make the children's responsability in how the adult feels. It's not their resposability! At least is where my reflection has lead me to.
I believe it takes practice like you say also, and the forgiveness and realizing we are not responsible for others peoples feelings π
I really hope so! See you around! π
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