I shared two years ago how I value dating myself; how I love dating myself in all ways possible. Today, I'll share another time I dated myself.
I love trying out new shades or techniques of hair coloring. This time I tried balayage defined as "a technique of free-hand painting highlights onto the hair, creating a soft and natural gradation of lightness towards the ends" [1] Countless friends and colleagues have tried this technique and I've been meaning to get one for myself. More than two years later, I finally got this as a reward for enduring life's unexpected battles. This was strategically scheduled a few weeks before a major local trip, too.
If you ask me why it took two long years before I decided to get a new hair color, the answer is simple. I don't want my already-damaged hair to get worse. I had to let my natural black hair grow long enough for the damaged hair to be cut.
The stories from friends coupled with some reviews I read online didn't fail me. From the moment I stepped into the salon, I was treated like a VIP. They were kind to ask if there's a specific style I want for my hair. I showed them a few photo inspos or pegs I've been eyeing to achieve for my hair. They explained that the exact color might not be achieved; the final color will depend on my hair's quality and other factors which are beyond the stylists control. I totally understood and proceeded with it anyway. Don't worry if you don't have any color or style in mind as they're masters of their crafts and they can definitely recommend one that will suit you best.
The long, arduous day began by washing my hair and analyzing how they'll come up with the specific style I wanted. There were at least 3 stylists doing my hair, one being the main stylist while the others help on executing the directives from the main stylist. I couldn't explain the technicalities surrounding this transformation but I can tell you they used bleach, colors on top of colors, washing right after every bleach and color application, in the end they blow dried and used a hair straightening to finally seal the transformation. It easily consumed a little over 4 hours to make this transformation happen. It hurt my butt more than anything else but it's worth it! I was more confident seeing the new hair's effect had on my appearance. Excited to try other hair and perhaps wild colors next time!
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It looks really good. Great change 🥰
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You look fresh with your new hair. In my life, I also change my hairstyle when I'm going to start a new phase in my life.
To date myself, I usually paint my nails and also buy myself flowers. It really makes a big difference to boost our spirits.
That's good for you, you get a servant who feels like a VIP member. :)
I know right, @anggreklestari? We should do things that remind us how precious we are. Good you're doing these kind of things, too.
I'm happy you got the chance to try this. I haven't been in a salon in 24 years as I have never found a stylist who actually can cut my hair the way I want it, so I do it myself! My hair is almost 4' long in the back, but the front, top and hair that frames my face are layered and curled. I've done it for so long, I think I could do it in my sleep!
Anyway, enjoy the new hair and have a lovely day!
Nooo waayyy, @elizabethbit! Pure skills! I coudn't imagine cutting my own hair except for the few times I was frustrated with my split ends. But nothing fancy just some straight cut to remove the damaged ends.
Back when I lived in Ohio many years ago, I used to have a hairdresser who did my hair just right. I would watch in the mirror as she cut it.
I then began cutting my husband's hair as well as my children, using the techniques I had watched her use on my hair.
When we moved, I could find no one who seemed to know what I wanted, so I began doing it myself. If you watch long enough, you can do it. I also seem to be able to see things both from the front and 'backwards' if you will, like watching in a mirror. I realized this when I watch my husband play his guitar and I know what chord he's doing by his finger positions. Keeping in mind, I see it backwards, so to speak, so somehow, my brain can turn that around. It's interesting to me....
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Such a lovely hair look and the color suits you too.
Thank you dearest @ene22 :)
pretty sis.. mas bagay syo :)
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@jane1289 salamaaat!!! :)
It looks so good on you.. Oh! I mean, you make it beautiful 🥰❤️
Thanks a lot!
Congratulations on that experience, you looked great, I hope you can enjoy that new look.
Enjoying it for as long as I could, in a few months time these will turn to black again. :)
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Well, let me just say loud and clear; you look just gorgeous. Queen, beauty, Madonna, Babe, lovely, magnificent! That look great on you
I hear you @chris-chris92, appreciate the lovely words. :)
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