Was I a good mother?/¿Será que fui una buena madre? [ENG/ESP]




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Yesterday at dawn I read in Loisel's book. Hay."" The Power is within you" in which he told me that the children do not listen to what one tells them but they repeat what one does, at the moment I understood this my mind went to the whole process of my life with my children and how I have behaved and how they are now that they are grown up.

Ayer en el amanecer ley en el libro de Loisel. Hay."" El Poder está dentro de ti" en el cual me comentaba que los hijos no escuchan lo que uno les dice sino que ellos repiten lo que uno hace, en el momento que entendí esto mi mente se fue hacia todo el proceso de mi vida junto a mis hijos y como me he comportado y como ellos son ahora que son grandes.




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The thought was combined with the expression of dawn, a beautiful sun, but it filled me with melancholy, a memory of my possible mistakes as a mother and my possible successes, I remember that I used to tell my son to stop saying that no to everything, however, I always said no to everything, what a big contradiction, I already understand why sometimes the children do not respond to the request of the mothers, they will never do it, since the mother does the same all the time, what a big contradiction.

El pensamiento se conjugó con la expresión del amanecer, un sol hermoso, pero que me lleno de melancolía, un recuerdo de mis posibles errores como madre y de mis posibles aciertos, me recuerdo de que a mi hijo le solía decir que dejara de decir que no a todo, sin embargo, yo le siempre decía no a todo, que contradicción tan grande, ya entiendo por qué a veces los hijos no responden a la petición de las madres, jamás lo van a hacer, ya que la madre hace lo mismo todo el tiempo, que contradicción tan grande.




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The sky, the sun and the clouds grew very fast with each passing moment, the beauty of the sunrise impregnated my whole life that morning, so I consulted with God if my work as a mother was good or bad, I worried about the possible damage that caused my children with my mistaken knowledge.

El cielo, el sol y las nubes se crecieron muy rápido a cada momento que transcurrían, la belleza del amanecer impregnaba toda mi vida en esa mañana, entonces consultaba con Dios si mi trabajo como madre era bueno o malo, me preocupaba del posible daño que le ocasione a mis hijos con mis errados conocimientos.




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I got up and went to my son's room and I could see that he only illuminated part of his rooms, I approached that place where my son puts his things I could understand that everything is fine, that my son is already an adult and so far everything has gone well.

Me levante y fui al cuarto de mi hijo y pude ver que aquel solo iluminaba parte de sus cuartos, me acerque a aquel lugar donde mi hijo coloca sus cosas pude comprender que todo está bien, que mi hijo ya es un adulto y hasta el momento todo ha salido bien.




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I shouldn't worry about how I raise them, since they are already grown up and from what I see each one is in their profession doing what they like, what I should do with this information is to be aware of what I should change, I accept that I did everything what I could and everything I knew as a mother, however, now it provokes me is to talk to them and apologize for the bad and uncomfortable times and continue giving them love, I hope you like this reflection that I had between reading and the encounter with this beautiful sunrise.

No debería angustiarme por como los críe, ya que ya están grandes y por lo que veo cada uno está en su profesión haciendo lo que les gusta, lo que debo hacer con esta información es ser consciente de lo que debo cambiar, acepto que hice todo lo que pude y todo lo que sabía como madre, sin embargo, ahora lo me provoca es hablar con ellos y pedirles disculpa por los ratos malos e incómodos y seguir dándoles amor, espero que sea de su agrado esta reflexión que tuve entre la lectura y el encuentro con este hermoso amanecer.




I took these photographs with my Redmi note 9 cell phone

Estas fotografías la realicé con mi celular Redmi note 9




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Well-written article, @technicalart!
Take care 🌺

¡Artículo bien escrito, @technicalart!
Cuidate 🌺

Hello @technicalart. What a lovely reflection. You know, as parents we work with the knowledge and experience we have at that particular time.

When you say:

"what I should do with this information is to be aware of what I should change, I accept that I did everything what I could and everything I knew as a mother, however, now it provokes me is to talk to them and apologize for the bad and uncomfortable times and continue giving them love,"

Looking back, we can always say what we could or shouldn't have done. We can now only look forward. If any correct is needed, then I feel that as mothers, we can show them how not to duplicate what we didn't do and show them the right way so that the next generation will benefit.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts on the subject. Take care and have a good rest of your week.

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