Hi, dear @jackdeathblack. Thank you for your kind words, for your faith and prayers. I really want my family to endure this ordeal, which is not over yet, but may have just begun. That's why we try to stick together and stay in touch.
I recently talked to a colleague. She and her husband lived in Bucha. When russians started firing them, she fled to Ireland to her sister, and her husband went to his hometown, to his parents. My colleague said she don't feel like going back to where they lived after what happened there. As far as I understand, she will not return to her husband either. This upset me a lot.
Hello friend, it is really unfortunate, as I said this war is destroying families and marriages, sincerely not to return to a traumatic place is understandable, but not to rejoin a marriage is not so much.
I understand why it bothers you, following the same idea, if by getting married we move to a new family totally apart, the separation will always be something unnatural.
I really hope it will be over soon, I admire you for the support you have been giving, some friends from Ukraine have managed to escape from dangerous areas, others have not😔 and have lost their lives. Please take good care of yourselves and be cautious.