The silent epidemic

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This week has been a whirlwind, touching every corner of my life. I've felt too drained to keep up with international news, stock market fluctuations, or the latest in crypto. Yet, amidst this external noise, a more profound silence has settled, a silence that tugs at my heart. And it made my cry for real this time.

I've previously observed how differing opinions can drive wedges between people. Now, I see a deeper issue: a pervasive fear of speaking out. Communication, the very essence of our humanity, seems to be slipping away.​ Even about topics like grief, silence is the only companion on your way in the present.

This isn't just a societal observation, it's personal. Within my own family, conversations have become guarded. The free-flowing dialogues we once cherished are now overshadowed by caution. This reluctance isn't confined to one generation, it's a shared experience, reflecting a broader societal shift.​ And that is scary to watch.

The rise of self-censorship is alarming. Many hold back their true thoughts, fearing judgment or backlash. This internal suppression not only stifles individual expression but also erodes the trust and authenticity that form the bedrock of our relationships.​

The spiral of silence theory suggests that when individuals perceive their opinions as minority views, they remain silent to avoid isolation. This creates a cycle where dominant opinions seem more prevalent, further silencing dissenting voices.​

Moreover, the prevalence of cancel culture has intensified this fear. The looming threat of public shaming or ostracism discourages open dialogue, leading to a chilling effect on free speech.​

The erosion of open communication has profound implications. Face-to-face interactions, crucial for developing empathy and maintaining meaningful relationships, are dwindling. Our reliance on digital communication has led to a loss of authentic connection.​

In the workplace, this shift is evident as well. Traditional tea or coffee breaks, once a staple of work culture, are under threat, with many workers rarely sharing a brew with colleagues. This decline in informal interactions contributes to weaker workplace relationships and increased stress.​

So, how do we navigate this new landscape? It begins with courage, the courage to speak our minds and the courage to listen. We must foster environments, both at home and in our communities, where open dialogue is encouraged and differing opinions are met with respect, not hostility.

Reclaiming the art of conversation is not just about talking, it's about connecting. It's about understanding that while we may hold different views, our shared humanity binds us together. Let's strive to create spaces where voices are heard, not silenced, and where the richness of our diverse perspectives can flourish.

In these challenging times, let's remember that communication is not just about exchanging words, it's about building bridges, fostering understanding, and nurturing the very essence of what makes us human. And what I mostly find on this platform.

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Wow this cancel culture epidemic has forced people to go silent, but like you rightly said, we need lots of courage to communicate your actual thoughts somehow.

If you have feedback or ideas on how, I will gladly hear them out to try to give people handles on how to

Well, I can say it really helps a person out if he/she starts to think that no matter how they act on social media, there will still be people who hate on them. So there is no guarantee that even though you are nice on the internet and people will appreciate or like you. So if you figure this concept out, then you will always automatically find the courage to spray out your thoughts because now you will not worry about your image and trying to pleace people on the internet.

That is true, thanks for the input. Sometimes I’m a bit blindsided because of the job. I know that actually 35% of the people dislike you for no special reason. Can I mention you in a next post about this?

Yes, why not you can tag me or mention me in your next blog post.

Only if you feel comfortable with it. But I certainly will post about your perspective

Yes I feel comfortable with it.

You are absolutely right, communicating is beyond words. It need a deep connection

Yes right? Thanks for reading and the reply, it gives me the feeling that I’m no the only one who sees this as what it is

It’s an unfortunate but definitely correct observation! While communication is simply a requirement for humanity to grow, it is currently crippled! Let’s all work for this to change back for the better!
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That’s a plan after an observation

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Communication is so necessary from every angle, from within, to within... and of course from and to the social fabric of which we are a part.
What an excellent call you make to us.
I'm only sorry for the pain you've suffered and I hope you regain your smile soon.

Thank you and the pain is for remembering. I will smile again, always. Thanks for the supportive comment !HOPE

Sometimes it's necessary to remember and let ourselves be carried away by the emotions it brings...
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It was a very intentionally-directed social shift designed to separate (divide and conquer) and weaken humanity further, to make us far more easily controlled. The courage to speak the truth, and to stand alone if necessary, is the only way through it, while also showing respect, love, compassion, and understanding for people (with solid boundaries), regardless of whether we agree with them or not. 😁 🙏 💚 ✨ 🤙

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I speaks my mind, but end up being judged, being told that’s not “survival” and there are consequences