It's clear that Grandma cannot be on her own anymore, she gets my admiration for being independent as long as she had and at 99! I think you made a well reasoned call, not as much as you had any choice, becoming her immediate Caregiver and as her advocate @dfinney. Going to Care facility may be overwhelming to her. I hope you find better assisted living options soon that are more suited for your grandma.
Thanks Kerris. We have a social worker coming over today. I am sick to my stomach nervous and I don’t even know why. I am hoping she can at least tell us all of our options and help with the best path forward.