We cannot spend our lives waiting for what we want from others. No my friend, it is better to sit down and enjoy a good cup of coffee with them to get into context and from there clarify the situation.
We judge others because we don't stand in front of a mirror and analyse ourselves. We simply expect from others what we are not capable of giving.
Do people really want to be compared to the person next to them doing the same job, where there is transparency on what each is doing?
My answer is NO, of course, there are automated processes, but the human being is not, hence the particularity of knowing how to use the skills of each person in a certain process and not to impose one, which he/she does not master.
I no longer expect anything from myself, I live life in the tranquillity of the surrounding environment, I adjust easily to the environment, I am an observer from the bench and I act when required. I enjoy a good coffee with friends and share with the whole work team, I know them both at work and at home, any inconvenience is aired as if we were a family. That has been my role within the Trebas Institute, and in over 10 years we haven't had a problem that hasn't been overcome.
I disagree. We judge each others because we are built with an innate system that evaluates the surroundings and predicts outcomes.
And again, I disagree. I expect people to do the job they are paid to do for instance. Because I do the job I am paid to do.
Act on what? How do you know when something is required?
That innate condition to which he refers has simply been left dormant in the generations that preceded us, the human being by nature is not predictive unless he has experimented on an event and noted the results -scientific method-, and from there argue possible hypotheses that could be valid or not.
… I am an observer from the bench and I act when required… My field of work is numerical analysis.