Everyone expresses their emotions as they feel most comfortable. I in particular would not attend a concert of loud music, a kind of Miniteca with an atmosphere full of cigarette smoke… My tranquillity and comfort is what is important. I don't drink liquor, I don't smoke.
My work group is well-formed, and we have the same tastes, so whichever of them organises an outing, it is certain to be framed for everyone and there will be no surprises. In case I have been invited by another group and I feel I will be uncomfortable, I simply do not attend.