I know a lot of people have the feature turned on in Discord where you can't even talk to them unless you are friends with them. If there is something I really need to talk to them about I usually find a server I am also in with them or reach out to them on HIVE before I bother sending a friend request. Even then that is pretty rare. I can maybe count on one hand the people I have talked to like that. There are others who have started mutual conversations outside a regular server, but again those are quite rare. I have maybe three people from HIVE that I regularly DM. I know you are a relatively private person, so it never would have even crossed my mind to reach out to you.
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I keep myself contactable as occasionally people I want to hear from, or with valid reasons to contact, will reach out...they do it in the right manner though.
I don't mind people contacting or reaching out, I guess I don't understand people doing it out of the blue and without some common courtesy and social skills.
I guess the other side to that is people probably don't reach out someone unless they want something. At least out of the blue like that. Which would immediately send up red flags for me.
Exactly. They're not reaching out to engage in my with and charming conversation, they want votes on Hive.
I've had people send DM's asking for funds transfers for various things they want to buy as well...these have only come from people in Nigeria though so it's not widespread. They get what they deserve of course and rarely come back twice.
Yeah, that's just tacky!