Life is so ephemeral, a few years ago I was just a little girl playing with my doll. everything is a process and if we don't take advantage of each process we get lost on the way.
for me life is a gift that we only deserve when we take responsibility for it, in spite of the obstacles that we face, because some people, faced with pain and suffering, prefer to give it up before the time it takes.
Life can be very difficult but also quite simple and what we do helps it swing one way or the other and I guess it's constantly moving between each.
Exerting some influence over it is a good way to move it to a more positive place but in doing so there's opportunity for failure. The thing is, that doing nothing at all, letting it slip by without that influence is a failure in itself. I think it's best to live life as well as we can, to create it as best we can...to do otherwise seems wasteful.