I'm a good listener, but I often don't pay as much attention as I should. I don't notice obvious patterns or behaviors until it's too late. I'm also a bit of a brute, I'm somewhat hermetic Sometimes I have a hard time expressing my words, feelings as I should. only with people I trust a lot do I feel comfortable to talk to.
You and many others but if you're aware of it then I guess you could work towards an improvement.
On the other point, I think that's not uncommon and in the current society it pays to keep one's circle quite small and tight; trust is a precious thing so it's best not to give it away lightly. I wonder if you are actively looking to improve your listening skills and if so how are you doing that?
Your question leaves me speechless because if I say yes, I would be lying to you.