a great post, i think at 1st she was just having fun not taking things serious, once u showed disappointment she pushed herself to her real limits & took things serious not to disappoint u, i agree that we do push ourselves to our limits not to disappoint those who we care about, being influenced by others is good wen the influence is for good "like n ur examble" not for evil, so it depends on who we r being influenced by, i believe that parenting style should be based on what is best for the child as n young childhood kids aren't always able to know what's better for them specially things with future consequences, agree that n most cases those who think they aren't affected by others opinions r the ones most affected but as i said it's n most cases so it's now always, agree that showing disappointment shouldn't b the only way n parenting to make kids do what we want them to do, it's a mental game & can b harmful, but wen it's about things that r important & n the child favor it can b used with caution like showing disappointment wen they say a bad word, bad act, not caring about studying & school grades.
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