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RE: With a Side of Violence

in Reflections2 years ago

Many conflicting ideas on this matter some look back to "spare the rod spoil the child" which simply means discipline brings about a stronger stable mind, not beating a child up literally, many have taken out of context.

Children actually feel loved when given direction in behaviour, something we still see is a child being smacked on the bum when throwing temper tantrums in shops. You cannot always send a child to his room, or ban a phone for a day or two, parents really need to think about how they raise the child from young, before school age.

Religion has been the back bone in many societies which kept a reasonable of check on the people through teachings. Modern society not many believe, which is fine, they need to find a balanced way to manage to instill learning of right/wrong, We are all packed with good/evil needing to find balance in life by not killing each other for next to nothing.

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which simply means discipline brings about a stronger stable mind

The idea that making spanking illegal has saved children from physical is ridiculous. Parents who would hit a child to the point they are injured will do it anyway.

Religion is a good point to bring up, because humans have a need for purpose and in the absence of religion, many can't create a healthy purpose for themselves, so they make religions out of social movements and increasingly extreme ideologies, without the community as a whole to temper it.

As a child always up to mischief with older brothers my bum looked like the stripes on a flag pretty often, lived to tell the story and learned lesson. I think parent feels more pain than the child does, having a wooden spoon for my boys growing up spared my hand sometimes.

Humans need purpose and community, growing up with a father who attended and mother who did not, one learned to appreciate from different angles when young. I don't attend and nor do my children, I did take them when young then by their own selection when teenagers they made their own decisions. Each individual has right to choice, mine is nature yet I am steadfastly against this climate change ideology and how it is being handled.