Positivity in darkness

in Reflections7 months ago (edited)

I need to get to the point quick on this post as I have a 300 word limit, and I have to talk about the positives of my Hive journey. Both a tad bit difficult as I'm used to writing long posts, and tbh there isn't much to feel positive about recently. I feel like the positivity has been encapsulated in darkness.
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No, I'm not talking about Hive tanking to 20c recently. I've experienced the ATH of $3.41, my heart didn't fly to the moon then, so there's no need to get upset now. That said, my wallet did look very impressive back then.

I've met many good friends over my 7 years on Hive, some in real life and some still virtual. I value each one of them because without them, my social circle wouldn't shine so bright. Some of these friends have drifted apart, some have become inactive and some have stated clearly they're leaving Hive. Pretty difficult to stay positive when you lose friends. I'm grateful for those many who are still on Hive and I can call friends.

I had a very good run being part of Pinmapple for 7 years, one of the best community on Hive. It's a privilege not open to many. I couldn't have asked for a better experience. Then something happened, I can't pinpoint exactly what or when. The black cloud gradually appeared. I decide to call it quits, ending the best chapter of my Hive journey. It just felt like the right thing to do.

Maybe I'm just going through a phase in life where you want to pack it all in, but deep down you know everything is too valuable to let go completely. Maybe darkness shall pass, flowers shall bloom, and positivity shall return. Maybe Hive will moon.

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Beautiful flower!!

I think this is your hive winter in Northern Europe.

Spring was your beginnings, summer the best years of Pinmaple, great friends and wonderful times.

The retirement of Pinmaple was the autumn, with leaves changing color, wilting and eventually falling off the tree that was the beauty of your hive experience.

Your feeling now is winter, which is full of cold, death and despair. The good thing about winter is that it does turn into spring and summer again eventually, the question is just when. The summer and good times lasted quite a while now we have to go through the cycle of death in order to feed the tree of life for rebirth.

That’s how I think of the pickle you’re in!

That's a great analogy. Now you put it that way, it does feel a lot better
Thanks so much!!!

My work is done here 🤝

Hahaha kidding, but it is a good way to think of it! Keep going and it will turn into spring at some point, maybe when you least expect it!

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I have only been on the platform for a few months, I don't know many things about Hive and I thank you for these sincere words. They confirm me good things that I am discovering in Hive every day...

Thank you @livinguktaiwan

It takes some time to get used to Hive because it is so different from traditional social media platforms. As long as you be genuine and be yourself, it is easy to build up your circle of friends. They are your long term supporters on Hive. Hive is as good as you want it to be

Thanks for the advice, it is also a form of support in this journey I started a few months ago.

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7 years is quite impressive. It's normal that in seven years in the Hive, great things have happened, but also bitter things have happened. What we go through in 7 years in our lives! Price is not that important but better go up 😂😂

Just like life, there are ups and downs and we just be have to accept them all.

I'm sure the price will go up, don't worry!

impressive stamina! Ive been on/off on hive but something keeps me coming back.
Lets keep on walking & posting ;)

Good to see you back again, its been a while, hope you're doing well!

First, congratulations on matching the word count 😀

You say it's hard to be positive when you lose friends? But friends on Hive are there, maybe inactive, maybe they've given up, but they can come back at any time. They certainly haven't forgotten you, considering your engagement on Pinmapple.

Such is the life cycle of accounts on social networks. Some are logged out, others are logged in and so on in a circle 🙂

Virtual friends are a lot more difficult to keep than real life friends, many I 'know' quite well and know a lot about them through their post and conversation, but don't even know their name. But that's just a fact of virtual life and we have to accept our virtual friends could just disappear in the thin air

Life is cruel...

For this reason of "disappearing", both real life and virtual friends, we should constantly make new friends, expand the circle of people we know, and at every opportunity, make a virtual friend a real life friend.

Here at Hive, there is an event that enables such a transformation, the Hive meetup 🙂
I haven't had a chance to devirtualize a friend, but I've only been here for a year... So in the coming years I'll probably have such a chance.

It's been a pleasure getting to know you over the years and following your travels! I've also enjoyed the various communities you have started.

Thanks so much @bozz, I always appreciate you dropping by and commenting, something that I still have to work on after all these years

It's like a second job sometimes for sure!

It must have been hard to leave Pinmapple, but it sure was harder to keep going if you felt a dark cloud take over something you used to enjoy.
I hope the darkness passes and of course, I hope Hive goes to the moon ;)

I'm sure the darkness will pass very soon, I can feel it starting. And yes, looks like the hive dip has at least finished

Hi livinguktaiwan, I first noticed you (well) from your pub guessing contests and from that I came to know your writings are also wonderful sometimes (maybe all times but I caught some of them). We say a quote in our Urdu language which means :

The evening of sorrow is long, but it's just an evening after all

The phase will pass, even some more beautiful phase of life will come. Just staying positive is the point ✨

Thanks so much for your kind words @ahmedhayat. Things can only improve for everyone, including Hive, I'm very confident of that

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Thanks so much Galen, and thanks for the opportunity for me to express myself, something that I don't tend to do much on Hive

You're welcome.

Hive is...a different place now and I'm struggling to find people I connect with on anything more than in a cursory manner hence the reason my follow list is so small. I remember the good old days and while I understand that things progress I miss those days and a lot of those people. Enough said though.

It's always good to hear from one such person so I'm glad you entered.

Thanks for all that you do for the community! I might not know you personally but I do see your name around in posts here and there, probably as part of Pinmapple too!

Hive is a relatively small community at the end of the day, you stick around for long enough you'll get to know a lot of people 😀

It's nice to know that you're in Hive for a long time. 7 years is already an achievment.
This coming July 18, it will be my 2nd year in Hive. Just like you, I always feel up side down already, but whenever I feel like quitting, I always looking back how Hive saved me from my shortcomings in past 2 years of my life.
I hope everything will.pass through, and better days will come. ❤️

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Shadows are necessary because if they did not exist, how would we know what light is.

So, let the days gradually illuminate your path and stay in the right place and with the right people.

And with your garden that thrives, I have seen, despite the difficulties.