I love this and couldn't agree more. I am still in my 20's and slowly realizing that;
Everyone that has one, worked for it.
That feels so liberating knowing that honestly we have "free will" and "options". I do recognize that judgement and fear of uncertainties can hold us back but really, if they present us with problem, then we just have to fix it.
I also recently re-read The 4 hours work week and one in particular is similar to your post,Apologize rather than asking for permission - basically highlighting the idea to just try and if make mistake, we can apologize.
Very liberating indeed, I completely agree! ...and also amazing when we already notice in our twenties, and have so much more time to actually apply all that free will:)
You remind me, I guess I should maybe re-read that book too... What are you currently reading?